I have a question…… I have a gut feeling I’m right about it but I want your perspective! My wife complained about our bedroom life for over a year. We are going through some rough times and I recently discovered she was texting/talking to a guy. The messages read with her saying things like, “We get to be together tomorrow” and “Morning Bae” etc. He was a consistent passenger in our transportation service so she saw him at least 3 times a week. I’ve dealt with women before and if I’m dealing with a married woman, the only thing I know she would want from me is time and sex. She claims they haven’t had sex because I was still on her conscience but I don’t believe it. I actually filed for divorce before I discovered this. Could she be telling me the truth? Should I just accept the fact in my mind that it happened? I want the divorce but I don’t want to break up our family (we have 5 children). God knows I’ve done some things in our marriage I know would crush her if she found out and it doesn’t mean a thing to me. Should I accept that humans will sleep with other humans and just do my thing on the side as well? This is painful to bear!!