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How Come I Never Hear Men Complain About Getting Fetishized?

July 20, 2022

Something you see a lot on women centric subs on Reddit is POC women (especially Asians) complain about getting fetishized by men. " Oh he doesn't really like me for me. He's just treating me like an object ".

But this happens the other way around too? It seems to happen the other way around even more. Tell me I'm wrong. Especially with Latin men.

But I never hear men complain about it lol. Isn't it the same principle here?

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Title How Come I Never Hear Men Complain About Getting Fetishized?
Author DynamicCrab
Upvotes 30
Comments 9
Date July 20, 2022 2:57 AM UTC (8 months ago)
Subreddit /r/EverydayMisandry
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[–]BloomingBrains 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“Fetishizing” is often just a code word for “objectifying” only when it’s a minority group. In other words it’s just like the whole intersectionality thing that woke people are always going on about. It’s not bad enough that men being attracted to women is bad, if they’re attracted to non white women, it has to be even worse. Oppression olympics.

Ironically though, these idiots don’t even understand the actual definition of fetish. “Fetish” is an attraction to a nonhuman object. So by calling attraction to asian women, black women, etc. a fetish, THEY are the ones objectifying them. Literally.

Of course these same woke people will talk about the importance of not kink shaming people.

Even if it was a kink, who cares? Just because it’s a kink (really a preference) why does that mean you are automatically objectifying that person? There are tons of people that have all kinds of healthy, consensual BDSM relationships and the like. I don’t ever see them complaining about that!

Shouldn’t they be happy that white guys want nonwhite girlfriends? Maybe the people complaining about this would be happier if Jim Crow was reestablished and interracial marriages were banned. Sigh. We seem to be going backwards not forwards.

[–]cromulent_weasel 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I swear I just saw a post about this exact thing. But it was a man being fetishised.

[–]TheLWMA 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm tired of hearing about "objectification".

Men and women objectify each other all the time, yet only men are called out for it. You have subs like LadyBoners and LadyLadyBoners for which the former objectifies men while the latter objectifies women. And guess which subs overlap with those two? TrollxChromosomes and WitchesvsPatriarchy. Two subs that constantly complain about "men objectifying women".

It's hypocritical. In the end, it's really about demonizing male sexuality.

[–]RatDontPanic 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Never talk to these same Asian women about how 40% of Asian women are married to white men. Not unless you want a firestorm of triggered hypocrisy.

[–]ALargeAutomobile 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well then you're not listening, plenty of gay and black men say they get fetishized by women.

[–]Dapper_Revolution_65 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't even get how being someones fetish is a bad thing if you got romantic interest there.

If I met a woman, and I liked her, and she one day told me; "I fetishize bald men.... I am a bald chaser!" Seeing as I am a bald man. I'm not going to be like, "Oh you are such a pig! You are objectifying me! How dare you!?"

I'd be like, "Hell ya baby!" Even if she got a little weird about it I would not be bothered... I would Let her get some baby oil and rub it on my bald head. She would be as happy as a pig in shit, and it wouldn't bother me even if it does nothing for me if it's making her happy why should I care?

[–]Jonesw16 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because of our biological differences. Men love attention from women no matter what form of it.

[–]NeoVidia 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Give them a stage to talk on and you will hear them loud and clear.

Men complain about it, that I can guarantee. But we’re prosecuted for it. So you’ll rarely see someone feel safe enough to.

[–]hottama 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because it's actually a good thing. Complainers do it only as a means to obtain power intimate and private like sexual attraction.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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