Do Red Pillers actually practice what they preach and what if they get proven wrong by someone?

RedPillDetox · 2021-09-18T12:43:13+00:00

Well, ive met many of these dudes in real life and most of them neither look nor act as intimidating as online. Of the few that are autistic enough to be loud mouthed, nobody really likes them. I remember this one dude who was the most adamant TRPer i knew going to one of the dude's birthday party with his girlfriend and guys commenting he didn't really act like any of the shit he defended around her lol... this dude was an actual doctor in his early 30s lol, goes to show how even seemingly intelligent people can fall for the brainwash.

LadylikeElectricland · 2021-09-18T10:55:05+00:00

There was once a commenter here who claimed to have been in a relationship with a redpill coach. If I recall correctly, he became a redpill coach well into their relationships and apparently he was a perfectly nice boyfriend, except when he took her to his public engagements he made her pretend that they were not in a relationship.

So yeah, in one way or another, in their time-off they are highly likely to be engaging in some of that bEtA-siMpiNg.

Training_Passenger79 · 2021-09-18T14:16:32+00:00

Speaking as a woman - they don’t seem to actually practice what they preach. That’s what makes them so difficult to avoid, because so many of them don’t follow those behaviors.

However, I’ve also been on the forums where a bunch of guys are complaining that they’ve tried these methods and they’re not working, and I’ve watched YouTube videos where red pill guys claim that if the methods don’t work for you, you’re “doing them wrong”.

Some of the people who complain that they can’t get a date also like to post pictures of how hot they are, and they brag about their extra curricular activities, but they claim that while they can get girls who will text them, they never get the first date.

So if those guys aren’t having success with red pill, I would say that it is unlikely that there are men out there who enjoy more success with red pill methods than they would have by actually understanding women and using the behaviors that men throughout history have used to attract a mate.

One_Ad1283 · 2021-09-18T18:24:03+00:00

I imagine they only show what they want you to see it's like all forms of social media.

no_user_ID_found · 2021-09-18T17:32:27+00:00

I think most “red pillers” treat RP like a non-religious person treats the Bible. There are some life lessons to be learned, especially when it comes to self-improvement what a lot of men can learn something from. Just don’t take it fully serious and keep your sanity. There are some red flags in people (not gendered) to learn to recognize. But most sane men know going full radical RP will not improve your life in any matter. Just like going full radical man-hating feminism will not improve your life. Actually all forms of extremism will not solve any problems at all. Getting along and making the best of what you’re given in life will.

Naus1987 · 2021-09-19T00:39:59+00:00

I’m certainly not an expert on this stuff. But my observation is that red pill exposes “statistical chances based on averages.”

So if a guy tries something and gets rejected, you really can’t close the lid on a case with a sample size of 1. You’d have to try it many times and see what the averages are.

As for older men dating younger women, I would probably examine the statistics already present. There’s enough age gap couples around to know they exist. Proof of concept.

I guess the real question is, did those relationships form due to any of the red pill fundamentals, or were they based off entirely different reasons.

Ultimately, any philosophy that’s based on rough statistical averages can’t be easy disproven by a single example. You’d need several examples. And even then, more examples of them being wrong than being right.

Because even if they’re right 51% of the time — they can conclude that’s an above average success rate.

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Additionally, I think it’s important to understand the difference between people who claim they’re red pill, and don’t practice it. And then people who do practice those behaviors (even if they’re not calling themselves red pill), and again, observe the end results.

I don’t get too involved with dating, but market research and sales pitches often indicate that people are incredibly susceptible to manipulation, so while I don’t know enough about red pill to be an expert — it wouldn’t surprise me in the slightest to discover women are easily manipulated, and that men who manipulate them can be successful. Especially with an age gap that gives the man an experience advantage.

glassjaw95 · 2021-09-19T01:23:28+00:00

Most people lie about the amount of success they have with the opposite sex on some level and I imagine it's no different with red pillers. I definitely exaggerated my success with women back when I still believed in rp.

I know 2 rp guys irl, one is blackpilled and so doesn't even consider dating an option, he's defeated long before he even gives it a chance. The other is more rp and it seems like he'll blame the woman or some outside influence when he's unsuccessful. He even blamed me once because apparently amphetamines make him super attractive and I messed it up by being awkward? Like nah bro you were tweaking and that's not attractive even if you are super confident while on it lol. He's been laid a couple times in the past year but both times were when he was doing drugs with a girl, which just seems REALLY suspect...so in short my experience tells me no, and even when they do have success it could be considered manipulation or even rape by some standards.

darthsmokey · 2021-09-19T21:29:46+00:00

Not really. Most of these "dating coaches" are either married boomers or divorced. Some of them married to single moms. They preach one thing and do the other lol.

Ok-Inspector-3045 · 2021-09-21T14:17:14+00:00

A lot of red pill guys would just chalk that up to approaching women being a difficult numbers game in general (which it kind of is). He himself would probably even say that his looks and his perceive wealth due to how he dresses also play a big factor.

I’m not trying to throw a wrench into what you’re saying but most coaches avoid talking about success rates as far as approaching goes. They just talk about what works more often than not.

Title	Do Red Pillers actually practice what they preach and what if they get proven wrong by someone?
Author	spankyourkopita
Upvotes	15
Comments	11
Date	September 18, 2021 10:38 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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