Do you think that the wall exists?

Naus1987 · 2021-07-27T05:28:56+00:00

I mean you’re right that the definition of “the wall” is too fluid to make concrete statements.

But I’m fairly certainly that most people see diminishing results as they age.

Additionally, there are probably fewer single people as you get older (I could be wrong), so it would only make sense that the older you get — the harder it is to get into a relationship.

My honest opinion is that the worst wall that most people suffer from is the inability to grow with another person.

A lot of older people want their partner to be exactly a certain way, and self sabotages relationships, because they’re not trying to grow into a team where people learn and compromise around each other.

It’s like a self made wall of not wanting to change, lol. Set in their ways!

Booda069 · 2021-07-27T18:14:59+00:00

Yes it's called getting older to and losing youth

Inareskai · 2021-07-27T06:56:32+00:00

Which is more likely:

A nebulous socio-natural concept, seemingly pertaining only to women, is objectively real but affects some people (again, specifically women) so differently that you need to put caveats in about the effects of said concept
The concept doesn't really exist in the world and trying to make a uniform rule about the experiences of an entire gender is flawed at best.

In short - how many different ways can 'the wall' affect people before the phrase/concept is meaningless? Because the article giving three different options is already pushing it.

VaporwaveVampire · 2021-07-27T21:07:58+00:00

You mean... aging? Everyone ages and it typically makes people less physically conventionally attractive.

Rad1Red · 2021-07-28T11:41:21+00:00

Well, most of my male high-school and uni mates look like THEY have been hit in the face with ”the wall”. Or hit by a tram. IDK.

Meanwhile, about half the women look almost the same as they did then. Some smile lines, some rounding up, but still quite attractive. Recognizable, even.

I have a good laugh whenever redpillers bring up ”ze wall”. That's a neg for naive women, mate. The rest of us have eyes.

Carloverguy20 · 2021-07-27T05:57:36+00:00

Pure MGTOW cope it is lol. The wall is a coping strategy that MGTOW/Manospherians love to propagate, because of their own projections and failures in life, that they need to fantasize some nerd revenge attitude.

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-07-27T18:37:09+00:00

Absolutely the wall is a very real thing

In regards to women there is the fertility wall

In regards to both genders there is the looks wall which we all hit, some of us faster than others lol

losingalldamonies · 2021-07-27T16:58:22+00:00

It is exists man.

I graduated college 5 years ago.

When I look up old flings almost none of them look like they used to. I think a lot of it is just unhealthy living. But its noticeable.

Happened to some of my guy friends too who didn't take care of themselves.

Laliving90 · 2021-07-27T17:58:00+00:00

Yes it does exist but it also applies to men

CuriosCara · 2021-07-27T18:47:12+00:00

Yes, it does. I mean, it's somewhere deep inside in us, men, I think.

urfasarmad · 2021-07-28T04:42:50+00:00

It does. But to say that 30 is the age that women hit the wall? Ridiculous. I know so many women in their 30s who are beautiful as hell, and extremely attractive. My mom is almost 48 and she still gets compliments about her looks, beauty and how she still looks young. But of course, you should also take into account genetics and other things. With age, your looks do start diminishing, that's the case with men too. And lifestyle choices like not eating healthy, working out - affect both men and women negatively. But to say that 30 is when the wall hits? I don't believe that. At least not for every single woman out there. Just depends on how you take care of yourself.

cabsmom2020 · 2021-07-28T14:29:25+00:00

***I'm a woman, so i can only soak from that perspective.

I think it exists in the minds of red pill men and shallow minded men.

I don't think there is an age where a woman suddenly becomes less worthy as a person in general. Sure, to some she does and that's their prerogative to have that preference. I think it's shallow and immature to base that much of a person's worth on their age.

I think a woman's value can go up, go down, and go up again and fluctuate with many factors. (Same for men... but the focus is on women as far as "the wall" is concerned).

In some societies (like in the USA) the focus on the superficial is absurd and it's very damaging.

I've read that there is another component to the wall.... that some women ride the CC until they find that they are single and broke and have kids with deadbeats before they realize they should have given real genuine good men a chance. I understand this part to an extent... but I don't think it's right to judge all single moms alike. MOST people make some bad decisions. SOME learn from them and they should not be punished their whole life for some bad decisions. Again, if a man prefers not to date single moms, that's his prerogative. I just don't like it when some RP men try to paint all single moms as the same.

I had a son with a bad boy. I figured it out after. I didn't date after that for YEARS. I won't date bad boys. I learned.

Anyway... I'm getting too long winded.

Title	Do you think that the wall exists?
Author	Plastic-Wishbone7645
Upvotes	5
Comments	20
Date	July 27, 2021 5:05 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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