How do I even find friends , let alone a girlfriend?

RedPillDetox · 2021-10-26T10:23:36+00:00

I'm quite sure there are extracurricular activities in your town that you can join in. Try joining activities or clubs related to things you're interested in.

GarudOne · 2021-10-26T15:02:48+00:00

Hey man, this advice may not be the best so take it with a grain of salt.

It seems to me like you are dealing with a mental illness. That means our regular joe's advice won't help you. I suggest you meet a professional. Do the important thing first before your mind degrades and your quality of life goes to zero.

You do not need a girlfriend, you need a doctor to treat you.

I_like_the_word_MUFF · 2021-10-26T15:52:23+00:00

Volunteer.

Inareskai · 2021-10-26T13:53:53+00:00

What do you like doing?
Find People in your city who like doing the same thing (they will exist)
Go do the thing and be as open to meeting people as you can, I recommend the three visit rule - if you go three times and still don't vibe, that's ok, try something else.
Choirs almost always need more lower voices and loads of them exist for a range of ages and demographics. If you hate singing, don't do it, but if you're open to it, honestly a good sing is good for people.

agavaa · 2021-10-26T11:49:44+00:00

Some possibilities off the top of my head:

Work/school. Dont' know how old you are or what your situation is, but the easiest way to get to know someone irl is to just chat someone up when you already are in the same space as others and they know who you are, i.e. when you're having lunch and sitting next to your colleagues.
Online. There probably are groups etc. in you area dedicated to hobbies and stuff on social media, like Facebook, Slack and such. Depending on your location it might be relevant to checkout a larger area that just the city you live in.

Title	How do I even find friends , let alone a girlfriend?
Author	ExCel451
Upvotes	13
Comments	28
Date	October 26, 2021 9:58 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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