I think one of the most absurd things that some RedPill/PUAs teach is that you can have any woman if only you know the right tricks. This is just silly. Think of it as finding a close friend. You wouldn't be friends with just anyone. You get along with certain people more than you do with others. In my dating experience I've liked girls who didn't like me back, and I've been liked by girls that I personally didn't like back. It can be a little frustrating to put yourself out there; however, you don't have to be liked by everyone you meet. Women aren't some valuable item in a video game where you have to enter in a cheat code then it's automatically yours. This isn't to say you should not improve yourself or focus on being better, rather it's to say don't be hurt by rejection. It's not that you didn't know the right secret tricks, it's simply the other person wasn't into you, which is life.