I have got a taste of all them funky pills; black, red, blue, purple, pink(matriarchy). One thing that I can say for sure is that.....everyone is right.

Aside from the young men and teens who form their opinion of the real world from what they see online; most people's belief into an ideology comes from real experiences.

I see so much contradictions about everything, because everyone believes that they're right. And, they are, when it comes to their lives.

Dating and life in general is as openly available to some as it is painfully out of reach to others.

People who believe that the world revolves around money, looks, and traditional masculinity and dominance...have lives that literally depend on such things, the same way your life may have nothing to do with them.

One of such people is my dad: He was raised as a traditional man, and the moment he couldn't keep doing some things, like being a sole provider, my mom cheated on him with a rich gypsy. Now, my dad has had different girlfriends in his life, mostly drying up his money. The moment money stopped coming, the relationships went dry and ended. My dad thinks all women are materalistic whores, and I can't blame him. At the end of the day, it's either being used or being alone (he's 49).

Now, on the same subject, I saw a recent post about a guy who saw another guy say thst "all women only want dominant men". Well, besides the fact that nobody gave him a concrete answer besides "You shouldn't think about it, get off the internet and touch grass" one comment (or phrase) that stuck with me is: "...one of the wonderful things about that statement being fake is that we can choose to love whoever we want..."

...I'm sorry, what...?

Are there actual guys who get to be with someone, whoever they want, just like that?

Which brings me to my life: I have been trying to date for 16 years. I tried everything, from being myself, being kind, being extra funny, playing the bad boy persona, being stoic, being emotional, being nonchalant, studying psychology in order to understand women better, joining clubs and events, cold approaching, friendships, waiting, etc...all I got in return are 0 dates, and 0 matches on dating apps(I have been using a few dating apps for the past 5 years).

All of that...because of my height(170/5'7) and sometimes weight.

Unfortunately, my best friend was in a similar situation, which is what led him to...not be alive anymore since October 2024.🖤

What I am trying to say, is that as much as people believe that love and everything else can be achievable for everybody, it isn't.

There are guys who go through life with being judged for their height, money, or looks; some who face some level of those issues; and some who's lives revolve around their shortcomings (I was literally refused a very flexible job position because of my height).

I am not trying to convince you to join or relate any pill, but to make you understand that rverybody has big and valid reasons for the things they believe in.

For example: Even if good, non-judgemental people who can unconditionally love exist, it doesn't matter you will ever find one. I have never met a single woman who doesn't care about height, not even a teeny tiny one, from middle school, through college, clubs, friends, family relatives...but I do know they exist somewhere.

Also, let's be real here, saying that *in reality, x, y, z are not things that are going to severely affect your life" is severely dump.

We live in a world where people have the comfortable choice of denying someone's worth as a person, in their life, based on things like looks, height, weight, status, and wealth...and icks. The world is more individual and lonely than ever, so believe me, if something is achievable for you just because, it doesn't mean it will ever happen to someone else.