Positive self-help?

I’ve never done a deep dive into red pill or any of the ‘manosphere’ subcultures.

I’ve also usually been suspicious of the whole self-help industry, too.

But where do you recommend young men seek advice? What books (or whatever else) do you recommend?

I’m working very hard, getting prestigious degrees, publishing papers, working out, etc. but I struggle with a lack of intimacy and a sense of fulfillment, purpose, or you know, just happiness. Frankly, I’m too busy and tired to even seek anyone, and it’s a sad way to live.