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Rejection

Admirable_Bid_9193 · 2024-03-09T14:52:40+00:00

Why do red pillers think that rejection never happens even to the best looking of women with the guys they really wanted to be with...

Admirable_Bid_9193

March 9, 2024

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Title	Rejection
Author	Admirable_Bid_9193
Upvotes	12
Comments	49
Date	March 9, 2024 2:52 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/1bajgfj/rejection/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/ExRedPill/rejection.1426210 https://theredarchive.com/post/1426210

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[–]Think-Committee-9977 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link

Correlation is not causation.

What if a large number of men want to have fun before they settle down? Many people, men and women and others, don’t want commitment. Especially when they’re young! Men don’t face the same societal pressure of becoming “past their prime” as women. Lots of factors could play into this. Try expanding your point of view.

The stat that young men are in less relationships than young women doesn’t prove that women have it “easier.” You’re only measuring based on number of relationships. Not actual difficulty of experience. It’s not logical to me.

Could these young and naive women be preyed on by older men with experience with manipulating? Do you think that could make dating harder for women?

And idk why we have to have oppression olympics over relationships. We should focus on actual problems instead of arguing who has it worse.

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The term incel has evolved beyond “involuntary celibate.” I recommend you do some research on the incel ideology that has lead to some mass shootings across the globe.

You could very well be autistic.

My last relationship was with a guy I knew since elementary. We “dated” in high school but have been on and off. I started hanging out with him as adults when he got an apartment and we reconnected. But yeah, it wasn’t healthy at all. He was manipulative. Especially when he was younger. He’d always try go to the most painful insults when he was upset with me. Calling me retarded or even saying I’m faking my disability, but he was the first person other than my mother that I told about my autism.

I was the one taking us out on “dates” and buying and making food. I shared all my weed with him. As he was unemployed and I had a job. Idk if this made him resent me? Even when he did get a job, that didn’t last long, he only bought me ingredients for me to cook with, or sex toys. Stuff that benefited him.

I’ve always tried to see the best in him. But I’m just done now. It’s sad seeing so many boys on the internet think women only use men for money, or only go after the most attractive men. He had a lazy eye. I’m obviously not a shallow bitch. I didn’t give a shit what people thought. As an autistic, I don’t care much about gender roles. I do what I want. I just hope that people aren’t using me. Which is usually the case, even in non romantic relationships.

I was asked for my number once when I worked as a cashier. This was a few years ago. I denied very awkwardly. I felt bad and I still do. He had kids, from what I seen, and he seemed sweet when I did see him. He bought a lot of cigarettes tho.

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