Thought on Casey Zander?

Electrical_Arm6340 · 2023-06-05T08:44:28+00:00

I spent 10 seconds looking at his YouTube:

"Women SILENTLY BEG to be naughty for an alpha male"

I'm done. Guy's a shill. Avoid him at all costs.

Any man who talks about "alpha males" unironically is genuinely only worth laughing at. I'm mostly laughing at how cringey it is how he shows his chest in his videos. I don't even know him but i know he's a fuckin loser.

goodboy92 · 2023-06-04T20:27:54+00:00

Clown

xvszero · 2023-06-05T06:45:24+00:00

My thought is: Who? But also I don't care who.

Infamous-Metal-103 · 2023-06-05T11:27:22+00:00

Just another douchebag grifter those are my thoughts on him

Significant-Dog-4362 · 2023-06-05T11:26:46+00:00

I’ve seen a few of his videos. His misuse of very basic words and saying “k” every other sentence, lead me to believe he’s not the sharpest knife in the drawer

ActionLegitimate · 2023-06-05T06:19:07+00:00

Imagine taking marriage/relationship advice from some early 20 something kid. Just another grifter.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2023-06-05T14:37:45+00:00

This guy drips with redpill bitterness. And he tries to make it sound legit by using a board.

Key-Educator-3713 · 2023-06-14T19:12:16+00:00

He has some psychological trauma from his parent’s divorce

Darkcloud246 · 2024-04-22T02:38:02+00:00

His "advice" is generally not to be nice because people subconsciously think being nice to them is desperate and that if you had options you wouldn't care about them so much and that women what people who have options. Generally with all my experience this is quite true but it might only apply to certain people.

mynameisburner · 2023-06-06T03:03:57+00:00

I use to like him and his content until he admitted to not caring about producing dating content and used it as a way to make money and shifting away dating content…only to make dating content again. He came off really bad and I haven’t really looked at him the same since.

Soft-Neat8117 · 2023-06-04T22:36:41+00:00

He has the most boring voice ever. Aside from Jordan Peterson, anyway.

LarryPorkchop · 2023-06-18T14:38:30+00:00

I think I first stumbled upon his channel in the late summer of 2020 and I remember watching 3-4 of his videos and the guy kept implying he's not your average alpha-tard redpill female expert but then proceeded to spit the same bs like ''yea you have a gf now but if you don't get your shit together and get buffed up and make a million $ per hour your gf will leave you for someone like me and yada yada''. Shows just how much insecurity he's projecting to his audience.

In another video I remember he said something like ''I also was a lone loser like you who out of shape who wanted to smash as much as possible''. And this proves why he talks about getting in shape with so much desperation, because he'd prolly hate himself had he not looked like he does.

Thirdly, I remember he also said something about his parents divorced when he was older, so that pretty much tells me why he's like this in the first place. Just like the rest of the dating coaches, he's suffering from childhood trauma that has remained unresolved. Dude is the one that needs help, instead of him pretending to offer help to others

Top_Temperature8007 · 2024-07-11T01:39:35+00:00

I was in a relationship with a girl for 9 years. We were about to graduate college (me dentist, her physician).

The relationship ended in about 6 months. My ex started to take care of her body and started posting “sexy” photos on instagram, things that she had had never done before.

She started texting with other guys in my back (things that I discovered later).

The relationship ended pretty badly even after 9 years of happiness and us having the perfect future: kids, big house, nice family, money, etc..

I can tell you after having watched Casey’s videos, he described my relationship of the past 6 months so precisely, it’s scary. I know the exact reason why she sabotaged everything so quickly even though I was always there for her especially when she was burning out. The second she started doing better, she stopped respecting me completely, I had become the low value man she could use when she wants how she wants.

Maybe he is over generalizing by putting women all in the same category, but let me tell you something, you are much better off knowing this theory cause you’ll be able to deal with it muchhhh better when it happens to you.

Possible_Will3093 · 2024-07-20T02:57:29+00:00

Ironic that majority commenting negatively aren’t successful with women at all lmaooo so you come here to hate with all the other dweebs lmao

WestCoastCanuck7 · 2024-07-31T18:17:51+00:00

Like many people here, I started watching his content at the beginning of the pandemic. Recently out of a rebound relationship and still heart-broken from a previous one, his content was that perfect-dose of red-pill alpha male advice I was searching for at that time. At it’s core, red pill content can definitely be helpful like putting yourself first, not chasing the approval of women, give yourself the love you’re searching for by working on yourself… etc. And Casey did in fact preach that philosophy… for the most part. Once I started dating again, and naturally started to mature, I started noticing cracks in the pavement with Casey Zander. Crack 1 - Bringing on his sister who was underage at the time talking about what she finds attractive, which just turned into more, "get buff you weaklings!" talk. Crack 2 - Talking about how one of his old childhood friends was getting married and he got invited to the wedding, only to brag about not going because going to the wedding would take time away from "the grind/hustle". He even went so far as to FaceTime his mom just to show her pleading him to come to the wedding. The classic, "ignore all other human relationships! They take you away from working harder on your "purpose"" talk. Crack 3 - Going on a rant about how modern-day men need to put "God" first. Regardless of what religion you are, I didn't come to his content for religious preaching. Crack 4 - Creating a shop with merchandise that is downright hideous. Things like "daddy energy" and just very juvenile designs and sayings. Crack 5 - Creating a "team" of dating experts with one of his first "team members" just being one of the first guys who bought a course from him. No credentials. Just a loyal follower of his that would spew the same empty platitudes that he did.

That's when I realized that this guy didn't have some insane insight that the other dating/alphabro content creators didn't have. He was just like the rest of them. Constantly bragging about how "alpha" he is in an attempt to mask his insecurity and acting just like every other "hustle culture" young salesman online. Yes, he has built a very successful YouTube channel and I'm sure he makes quite a bit of money... more than me I bet (I'm a wholesale plant salesman by the way... so I get all the sales tactics he is using). However, I know from experience that I have followed advice like his for a long time and I went deep down the "red-pill" road... it's not pretty. He is not spreading good information, and I encourage others to stay away.

Edit - In his most recent video since posting this, I noticed the thumbnail said “God told me to say this!” … No he didn’t haha. That’s a straight up lie. Enough said.

Tostitos153 · 2023-06-09T02:29:48+00:00

He’s a dork lol Just spewing redpill rhetoric Nothing he says is based on any science or peer reviewed work

Total-Independent-94 · 2024-07-21T20:44:27+00:00

Short note: This is not a promotion.

I tried out his Masculinity Blueprint 2.0 course (MBT). I started to binge through it many months ago however, I never actually put the practice in. Currently on a vacation in Europe, I decided that it's the best time for me to start actually putting in the practice using his teachings. Some things to note was that I did it through Snapchat because I don't even speak the country's language. So it's my excuse to not approach.

As of writing this, I had done a week of using the teachings that I learned from MBT (specifcally the Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3) on snapchat. From my personal experience, this is what happened.

I had more women hooked on me than ever in the 18 years of my life. Of course, these ain't the high quality women you're probably imagining. But, these are the women who would post their content on OnlyFans (OF). Yet, using MBT, they all send me sexy snaps, being intimate with me, and are 100% down to meet up. Basically, while other men are paying money to see her contents, she's all over me.

I'm no master seducer. I'm fairly new so I get flaked, which it frequent in online dating. However, the fact that these are happening to me is not something to joke about. Over time however, practice will make perfect.

Somethings to note is this:

There's more to life than women. It's easy to become super redpilled on this, especially when you never seen women bait an eye to you or you always fumbled for most of your life. However, just don't think in that mindset. One important thing that I liked in this course was that Zander wants men to focus on themselves. Forever building the man first. Whatever goal a man has, he got to get after it. After all, life is short to not do anything. God doesn't give what you want like it's a birthday present. You got to work for it, whether it's building the body of your dreams, maximizing your education, or simply becoming a better person/human being. In short, focus on improving yourself. It will show what kind of man you are to everyone, not just women.
The perfect analogy that I can give for this point is saying in the gym, "the weights won't lift itself." Just because you learn all these teachings from MBT, watch videos on seduction, or reading another's person story on flirting, doesn't mean you know everything. You got to go out and practice. Just practice to any women. Nothing more, nothing less. Only then, will you understand from first hand experience. You won't be perfect. Everything will feel hard at first. But the more you put yourself out there, the better you become and the more you understand.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

** This isn't any promotion to Casey Zander or to buy his course. This is just my personal opinion on Zander. Again, you have your morals and beliefs. I don't intend to have red pill destroy my life. But his dating guide made me more aware of how I can get the high-quality woman that I wish to be with. **

Potential_Virus_8704 · 2024-08-18T17:15:24+00:00

Seems over the top when you peak at the content. BUT If you study this info deeply like myself and actually go through the trials and tribulations of the dating world, it all makes complete sense

FinancialMessage6191 · 2024-11-18T21:57:07+00:00

Great advice. Guy has gotten me more women than I need.

crossfitvision · 2024-11-24T09:39:25+00:00

Just googling this guy. I’ve never been Red Pill. I’ve always done alright. Someone mentioned him, so I looked him up. Never found anyone else do spot on. He really emphasises acting “uninterested”. I know for a fact t this works, because by nature I’m not too interested in anyone, which is seemingly my most attractive quality.

lebocinek · 2024-12-10T01:11:19+00:00

i love that guy he changed my life i want to know what is about the language of woman in the his course

Forward-Goal-9344 · 2025-01-26T22:45:10+00:00

His advice is good if you’re looking to attract emotionally damaged messed up narcissistic women. But if you’re wanting to have a healthy loving relationship, don’t listen to his crap. If you have any ounce of character about yourself then his videos are just gonna make you feel miserable and give you the impression that all women are evil.

earnbitcoin12 · 2025-02-27T19:00:52+00:00

Casey changed my life, i now have become a human and am growing as a man. Have got alot of women but just being able to be in the state i am is worth way more than women.

Background-Sun320 · 2025-05-27T15:15:25+00:00

If anyone wants his masculinity course in 10$ you can message me

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KingKunta2-D · 2023-06-07T14:53:47+00:00

Who?

emfanthrowaway12 · 2023-06-20T21:08:17+00:00

Casey Zander trying not to promote his course every 2 seconds: visible discomfort

Typical red pill dating coach teaching game and maximizing SMV

5823059 · 2023-11-12T04:14:55+00:00

The one video that Courtney Ryan did on Casey was surprisingly respectful. It was of an older video (Casey's cap faced forward, no stubble), so maybe that's why. He was surprised to overhear some older women trying to talk a younger woman out of being monogamous, that hypergamy was the way to spend her 20s and 30s. So it's understandable why Courtney was supportive. Casey was witness to (or claimed to be--the information he gave about them was curiously specific) something pretty f-ed up. He was doing what Courtney does as the basis of her channel: find something so f-ed up that she has to talk about it to the world.

But this has nothing to do with the response that Casey has had to what he overheard. His subsequent act has been about the two older women, not the nice woman who was being faithful. He talks as if all women are like the two older ones. What if you never date the crummy type, but date only women like the nice one in his scenario? Should you be confidently aloof, forever a mystery and challenge to her as well?

He reminds me of Marx: good observation, followed by solutions that are worse than the problem.

Leone7777 · 2024-01-19T06:12:49+00:00

Whatever happened to that podcast him and his siblings were doing, “The Zander Life”?

LYBRA730 · 2024-02-29T02:49:07+00:00

I’ve watched a lot of his videos… He should just be honest and upfront that his teachings are only a viable roadmap to successfully maintaining relationships with damaged emotionally unstable/low self esteem women. He insists that everything he preaches applies to all females regardless of their background/upbringing. This is false. If a man has a thing for women with a ton of issues, low self esteem, survivors of abuse who have never had any therapy, strippers etc. well he’s pretty much got everything decoded. I’m not speaking up for him this just how I see it..

Title	Thought on Casey Zander?
Author	IDrinkPetroleum123
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Date	June 4, 2023 7:40 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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