Why don't women text back or text back after a very long time or just ghost men after good dates that sometimes you even kiss?

ditasaurus · 2025-06-12T08:29:04+00:00

That's a very wide question and impossible to answer without more information.

How do you know a date was good for her?

I don't want to hurt your feelings, but people can view and experience a situation vastly different.

Hate_Manifestation · 2025-06-12T08:53:00+00:00

just move on and try not to think about it. people are dynamic and complicated and there are about a hundred reasons or more that they might ghost you after what seemed like a very positive encounter. you can always ask, but the answer might not make you feel any better.

tomowudi · 2025-06-12T13:11:10+00:00

Men do this too.

Seems like you have had some experiences that for you were unpleasant.

Have you considered that perhaps your impression of these circumstances is different from what you believe those women in fact experienced?

GalaxyAtom99 · 2025-06-12T08:49:14+00:00

If a woman doesn’t text back at all = She’s not interested. Either never was or is no longer interested.

If she’s takes too long to respond = She’s not that into you, has other and better options and is just keeping you around as a safe back up option or just for attention and validation.

If she ghosts after a date = most of the time it’s because of something you did or she met someone better but just doesn’t have the guts to tell you and therefore ghosts to avoid confrontation.

I once approached a girl and we went out on a date on the spot. We spent hours together and basically became a couple, then I didn’t hear from her for 24h and then tells me that she can’t continue seeing me because she’s still not over her ex.

There’s no real explanation, it just is what it is.

xvszero · 2025-06-12T12:21:27+00:00

Like a billion reasons. Only she knows.

One thing to consider is that maybe the date wasn't as good for her as you thought it was.

IrishShee · 2025-06-12T13:28:42+00:00

Why do men do the same thing?

Title	Why don't women text back or text back after a very long time or just ghost men after good dates that sometimes you even kiss?
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