As wild at this is, I’m inclined to agree!!! Here are some points my friend and I discussed they other night about this exact topic. my friend and I were talking about all the creepy shit that has happened to us.

  1. ⁠Men who fail to hide their misogyny, post freely in forums that encourage that mentality. They degrade women down to their looks (SMV) amongst other superficial things (n-count) that have no direct impact on the woman’s character. But in society, when guys are being guys, the woman is crazy for having standards and preferences therefore she is seen as disgusting.

  2. ⁠Outside of Reddit, this sexist attitude is still prevalent and it’s easy to spot when you interact with men. Guys will use women for their bodies, and turn around and say “she slept with so and so, she’s a hoe” yet, these guys friends would still date and sleep with said “hoe”

  3. ⁠The “hoe” dresses provocatively and dates men- (which is totally within her right), and regardless men hate her and drool over her. They will cat call her, make lewd remarks, do stupid shit to impress her just to shoot their shot.

  4. ⁠Men claim that SMV, N-Count, and promiscuity are deal breakers, but will still sleep with anything that has a pulse if no one would find out. They claim these women are not relationship material, but they still choose to pursue her. Men, who have crazy vapid physical standards go for women who are so out of their league, that the ONLY logical reason why the woman entertained them in the first place was for their status and wealth.

  5. ⁠If they’re rejected, she’s a gold digging hoe. If the woman accepts their advances, she’s a gold digging hoe. But for some reason it’s totally cool for men to use women for their resources ( sex, affection, companionship, and ego boost) - but I guess since these resources aren’t material in nature they get a pass 🙄..... but god forbid a woman wants a guy who is tall or that practices basic hygiene

  6. ⁠Men want a “decent women”, but aren’t even open to a relationship They say it’s because there is no one worth it, but they have a woman right in front of them that is interested for the RIGHT reasons, he will still pass her up. Excuses range from (I don’t want to be tied down, I want options, I just want sex for literally nothing in return) oh AND I’ll lie to you to get it. Aka, I’ll take and give nothing in return. You’re garbage, that deserves to be disposed of accordingly.

  7. ⁠Men continue to seek out women, using dishonest tactics, to get more women. Woman catches on, woman drops his ass. Man implies woman is worthless and not high value enough to treat as a human with thoughts and feelings. Shamelessly I might add....

  8. ⁠Man blames women and the cycle repeats.

This happens in all cultures across the board, men condemn women for their sexuality. But the man, who freely displays his, is a stud and a “Chad” who is some how better and out of every woman’s league so he can’t be tied down.

Think of Jeffery Epstein, Harvey Weinstein, Bill Clinton, Hugh Heffner, Dan Balzarian, etc.

Each of these men were “alpha”, they had access to resources, education, money, power etc....The former powerful men of the world had access to all the women in the world, you’d think surely they could find ONE woman that was “wife material” ... and even if they did, they’d still cheat on her etc.

OR, even the average dude who is Muslim let’s says... he dates women outside of his culture knowing damn well he plans on marrying a woman of his culture. Regardless, he uses the woman for his benefit, and then after the fact lets on to the fact that he can’t date anyone outside of his culture because of religion etc....

It’s always, you aren’t good enough for me and I see you as a second class citizen. Even other women of the same culture deal with mistreatment and overt misogyny that has been normalized as “family values” or “cultural values”

Men who have their shit together, and who are mistaken as viable partners STILL chose to exert their power over women, by objectifying them, degrading them, by emotional or physical abuse...

Men view women as objects!!! As possessions! They think women are inferior in the workplace, at sports, in academics and in their private personal lives when it comes to dating! I would say they’re all misogynistic because men are inherently predators!! They create a power imbalance and prey upon it.

As the saying goes “men are as loyal as their options are” .... meaning, if they have the opportunity to engage in whatever weird shit they wanted to, they would!!!

(Not ALL men act on this, but the majority do in one way or the other)

How else would you explain this???