So I live in the US and I recently dated a British guy where it ended very poorly last year. He was addicted to porn and sex, had daddy issues, used me as a therapist and just wanted nudes from me (I did not do that or do anything dirty for him, thank god.). And one other big no-no was that he did not want to commit to me, did not want to tell anyone about me, and wanted to live as a broke back-packer traveling across the world, until he was 40 and THEN settle down. He was running away from his issues and was a really messed up guy despite being a phd student and having everything good written down on paper.

After that horrible experience, I lost hope. for some reason I have always found European men to be super attractive. There was a Norwegian guy I used to crush on in high school who was 6ft 3, handsome, but a complete LVM. American guys can be attractive too but honestly I am on a break with men.

I recently saw pictures of guys at British festivals and they looked SO bad. Like trashy all around British white guys. The guy I dated would fit right in. I live in the south and sometimes I think I should give up and just look for a nice country boy with a big truck lol. Or get an arranged marriage. But brown guys are terrible. India, US, or UK, brown men are the worst.

I have always wanted to live in the UK but the men look awful and one has treated me really poorly. I think it’s a beautiful country with history and beautiful nature. I heard of the increase of assaults and attacks against women,plus incel groups becoming more popular. I still love your country, though.

British ladies, what is your experience with the men over there?