Best dating strategy that is universal?

Zambigulator · 2020-07-07T13:06:30+00:00

I know this is my solution lately. I can freeze them all out and give zero fucks. They can't attack me because they have no information on me. Being silent and ignoring men is really effective and efficient!

Hi_Panda · 2020-07-07T15:10:43+00:00

best dating strategy is to love yourself. it applies to both men and women and is actually quite difficult for some to do. but once you love yourself, you don't take crap from anyone/lower your standards and you also become a nice person to everyone else. everything truly starts from within.

FurryBellyButt0n · 2020-07-07T15:45:18+00:00

Mine is "there is a message in the way a person treats you, just listen..." and make sure to always go off actions, not words. If they don't align, they aren't worth my time!

OrchidLion · 2020-07-07T15:27:42+00:00

Dumb Fox is the best strategy. They can never see it coming.

radical__daphne · 2020-07-07T15:52:18+00:00

This is exactly the correct response because it gives them nothing. They get nothing to feed off of. Not even your outrage. You're telling them that they matter so little in the world that you don't care at all. You're in charge.

ImPiqued1111111 · 2020-07-07T20:41:26+00:00

You know it's so weird. When it comes to the premature sexual innuendo stuff, I usually will give one chance to back off of that. My current strategy with that is to just be up front and just politely say that I'm not cool with that sort of thing at this stage.

Previously though, rather than just being direct like this, I would just sort of sidestep any comments like that. Just ignore and respond to something else they had said, or just bring up another topic of conversation. Figuring someone with reasonable social skills would take the hint.

They never would take the hint. Whenever I attempted this, they always doubled down and would try to get a reaction to the sexual innuendos. I mean, it works either way as a method to filter people out I suppose. But it was always just startling to me how much these men are dopes.

redfarmmmmm · 2020-07-08T04:13:29+00:00

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Title	Best dating strategy that is universal?
Author	redfarmmmmm
Upvotes	94
Comments	11
Date	July 7, 2020 11:59 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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