Some women crave for any type of contact with their crush despite how they're not sure if he likes them back. Some may even be certain the guy is not interested in them but due to their obsession with them, they see any type of contact as better than no contact. These women sometimes know these crushes will lead to nothing good (at least from their perspective) but they'll still long for any sort of contact with their crush. The interactions will make them "happy" similar to how drugs will make drug addicts feel high.

Despite how the interactions may make you feel "happy", they do you no good in the long run. The crush will either use, ignore, avoid, or reject you after you initiate contact with them. You lose face when you pursue men. Your crush may also gossip about you being some sort of "desperate whore" he doesn't want and this will ruin your reputation. Yup, not that different from illicit drugs ruining your mental health, physical condition, financial situation, and reputation. Putting a guy you have a crush on on a pedestal may result in him exploiting you if he's LV. Unfortunately, there are many LV people out there who exploit those who really desire something or someone. It's similar to drug dealers exploiting drug addicts by selling drugs at extremely expensive prices.