Demisexual...?

Bennettist · 2020-02-20T17:46:13+00:00

I think it's normal to want to feel a strong connection to someone before wanting sex. The entire OLD platform is so far away from how people normally meet it's crazy.

SarcasmSlide · 2020-02-20T17:48:27+00:00

There is no such thing as demisexual. It is not a sexual orientation to dislike hookup culture and casual sex.

Take a break from OLD and actively seeking someone to fill this chasm in your heart and spirit. Work on yourself and your vision of the future. Seek support here (like you’re doing now!) and turn to people with likeminded values. You’re worth the journey.

letsberealforamoment · 2020-02-20T18:36:00+00:00

Not wanting to have sex with someone who doesn't give a shit about you is NOT A SEXUAL PREFERENCE!

It's called BEING SMART and looking out FOR YOURSELF!

Most men on dating apps are unattractive and/or say stupid shit in their profiles. They shoot themselves in the foot.

persephones_torch · 2020-02-20T18:20:43+00:00

I gave OLD a try after my divorce and didn't last long. I would prefer to meet someone organically because I'd be exposed to them constantly... that's really how I develop an attraction.

Anyway I would say work on yourself first. Find new and interesting hobbies. Make leveling up and becoming a more rounded person your focus instead of finding someone. Everything else will fall into place eventually.

lasolterita · 2020-02-20T19:50:08+00:00

Most women prefer physical intimacy with people they know and trust. Hook up culture, which does not require trust or familiarity, is the default for men.

Liberal feminism normalizes hook up culture and considers anything else fringe. Therefore, per liberal feminism, to be 'normal' is to approach sex like men do. How most women feel about sex gets labeled as 'demisexuality.' They portray it as a variation from the norm.

Interesting that a 'feminist' movement would reduce normal sexuality to the type most preferred by men.

turquoiseblues · 2020-02-20T19:21:30+00:00

You’re not alone. The vast majority of men are not attractive.

whycantweallgetal0ng · 2020-02-20T18:43:22+00:00

While a woman can have a strong libido, it's not a constant and it can fall into hybernation for various reasons. "Use it or lose it" comes to mind.

So you're pretty normal. It should perk up again once you meet someone you actually like.

Title	Demisexual...?
Author	plannergorl
Upvotes	14
Comments	9
Date	February 20, 2020 5:43 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f6wn9b/demisexual/
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