Did I go to far?

nruthh · 2019-11-30T23:04:13+00:00

He didn’t gaslight you. People use that word way too loosely and it diminishes actual gaslighting.

Other than that, your reaction was fine. No man who’s interested in wooing you is going to invite you to hang out at an Arby’s, lol.

CDNblondie · 2019-12-01T01:15:53+00:00

He wasn’t gaslighting you

lightningboltx · 2019-12-01T03:01:30+00:00

He's clearly not a HVM but that wasn't gaslighting. That WAS rude, but it’s okay to be rude sometimes.

LuxSimpleJoy · 2019-11-30T23:01:04+00:00

Not at all. There is nothing appealing about that exchange.

MyGilleyCat · 2019-11-30T22:57:58+00:00

I blocked him right after this, I guess my question is, is my take on this wrong? Felt like he was fishing for a hookup which it says on my OLD profile I'm not looking for.

MyGilleyCat · 2019-12-01T01:04:18+00:00

Thanks everyone, I'm new to this and I just wanted to double check my instincts here.

realWgtow · 2019-12-01T04:09:38+00:00

Did you have a previous conversation with him? Or "come hang out" was his pick up line? You were not wrong anyways, trust your instincts .

Title	Did I go to far?
Author	MyGilleyCat
Upvotes	6
Comments	15
Date	November 30, 2019 10:54 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e452a7/did_i_go_to_far/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/did-i-go-to-far.695138 https://theredarchive.com/post/695138

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