Do I drop him?

mareetran · 2021-12-23T08:35:33+00:00

I’m sorry sis; If you had to make a whole post about it, I think you know the answer. It don’t sound exciting or worthwhile whatsoever.

yoursultana · 2021-12-23T08:58:35+00:00

You need to read the FDS handbook thoroughly. We do not do coffee or walk dates. There’s so much wrong here. All of this could have been avoided. He’s clearly LV.

Astral_weaver · 2021-12-23T08:57:31+00:00

You should have dropped him at the first date for eyeing your chest, but it is never too late. You deserve much better than that.

radical__daphne · 2021-12-23T09:05:21+00:00

Have you read the handbook?

No coffee dates

Certainly no fast food dates

No "walking around"

No letting him pick you up (so now he knows where you live) so early on. Plus if you are alone in his car he can take you where ever he wants, rape you, k!ll you. What were you thinking?

He took you to his house!

You went in!

You were surprised he just was trying to fuck you!

That's where I stopped reading.

Please read the handbook and be safe before some cheap creep from tinder rapes you in his shitty apartment. You took a HUGE risk here. Seriously.

MarshmellowMedic13 · 2021-12-23T08:58:30+00:00

Some tough love here OP.

Seriously drop him. This is embarrassing.

First sign of disrespect: Eyeing your chest.

Second sign: Fast food place. Well established couples do that not a guy trying to impress you. Even then it’s not a date it’s just catching up.

Third sign: Going back to his for a make out session. He obviously wanted to f-

There is more in your post but honestly three strikes and he most definitely is out. And review the handbook. It’s not just about him paying for your dates….

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rightsun__ · 2021-12-23T08:32:50+00:00

Drop him. All of those dates sounded terrible and like you didn’t enjoy yourself. Him paying and having mutual friends doesn’t make him obligated to your time, energy or body.

Sounds like he ran out of easy options and is coming back to you a year later just to shoot his shot of getting his dick wet. Ick.

DemonSimulatoe · 2021-12-23T08:36:35+00:00

GIRL, YES DROP HIM

Please read the handbook.

medusas_heiress · 2021-12-23T08:37:59+00:00

Sounds to me like he doesn‘t really care. Coffee date? Being unprepared for other dates? Contacting you again a year later? Didn‘t bother to congratulate you? Nah girl. You also don‘t sound really excited about him, why would you put up with him a second time when the first time was already meh?

Title	Do I drop him?
Author	vivid_spite
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	December 23, 2021 8:26 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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