Don't explain, don't justify, don't reason. Give the gift of your absence to those who do not respect or appreciate your presence.

PollyAnnaSunshine · 2020-06-14T16:08:30+00:00

My sister said it very well: "Decent people don't need you to explain what they did wrong. They figure it out on their own and take responsibility." And why would we waste our time trying to change someone who isn't a decent human being?

Myplummms · 2020-06-14T12:12:37+00:00

This is the point where I'm at.

I'm not going to tell you how I have changed. I'll be doing me until you pull your head out of your ass and see for yourself that I am changed.

If you need to give someone paragraphs to explain yourself but they still don't understand or respect what you have said? Don't bother.

At this point, all that shit I want to say in a long text or call or argument, I just write it down. It's like journaling, but in the format of "maybe I'll post this on FDS later"

DivaPeaches · 2020-06-14T17:46:07+00:00

I wished I known about this group a while ago...it would have saved me several long texts that basically were sent into the the Universe/Void.

As soon as I hit send I knew it was a waste of data, but I felt a little better, figuring that I got it off my chest and MAYBE one day he just might actually READ it!

I know it was silly of me, but you live/learn.

LovLeigh · 2020-06-14T18:32:51+00:00

Hell yes. Let your block hand be strong, ladies. For all people, not just scrotes. Toxic friends and family get the same energy. None.

Myplummms · 2020-06-15T18:28:23+00:00

This is the. best. feeling.

Found myself posting here for advice at first. Last week, i just blocked without thinking. (A guy asked me out and said he doesn’t usually bite...wtf). I hope he woke up and realized he has no way to contact me ever again.

ItsYesMaam2u · 2020-06-14T15:27:54+00:00

This is always good to hear.

Villanelloh · 2020-06-14T15:32:23+00:00

I've already commented on a different thread that I had to go no contact with an ex and I want to say it again here - it feels amazing!!!!!

Title	Don't explain, don't justify, don't reason. Give the gift of your absence to those who do not respect or appreciate your presence.
Author	Myplummms
Upvotes	434
Comments	12
Date	June 14, 2020 11:00 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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