Especially important to remember during a pandemic. Don't be with someone just because you're lonely.

nyan_birb · 2020-08-27T14:57:55+00:00

That was me for months. When you’re in pain you do things you wouldn’t normally do. Glad I am out of that mindset, focusing on myself and found FDS to open my eyes and realize I am worth more than I was lead to believe.

2020-08-27T14:15:58+00:00

You didn’t have to yell, I mean damn

the_researcher_ · 2020-08-27T14:04:59+00:00

So many people do this. The problem is that they go along with it for too long, letting the other think they're serious to avoid being left alone, until they themselves are ready to move on, which is a really low-value move whoever makes it.

AnniaT · 2020-08-27T18:32:09+00:00

I was guilty of pursuing relationships to distract myself from my sadness and lonely. Being aware of this is the first step to start focusing on what really matters and demanding better for our lives.

South-Lobster · 2020-08-27T13:42:27+00:00

What's the difference?

whatprettygirlwhere · 2020-08-27T16:09:06+00:00

Thank you for this important reminder!

slothsomesauce · 2020-08-28T00:18:58+00:00

I have definitely been feeling lonely and momentarily considered downloading an online dating app. Then I remembered I need to lean into this and learn to be on my own. So I did piyo instead. Ding ding! Level up!

Title	Especially important to remember during a pandemic. Don't be with someone just because you're lonely.
Author	elementalvirago
Upvotes	537
Comments	11
Date	August 27, 2020 12:57 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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