"Fetish Mining". Yet Another Way Women are Targeted Online.

EarthKveik · 2021-02-08T00:15:04+00:00

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Sarcastic3 · 2021-02-07T22:29:10+00:00

Ugh so disgusting. Is there no end to depravity?

Starsuponstars · 2021-02-08T05:17:28+00:00

She doesn't realize that "kink" is all about men transgressing women's boundaries and that there's really no way to handle that except by avoiding such men completely. "Consent" is such an empty concept when there's such a disparity in power/privilege levels as there is between men and women.

shockingupdate · 2021-02-08T00:54:48+00:00

Thanks for the heads-up. Holy shit, the lengths NVM will go to for their porn. Willful and enthusiastic consent is STEP fucking ONE for being a well-adjusted sexual being and the lack of it is exactly what gets them off

Maingurl · 2021-02-08T01:10:19+00:00

These foot fetish guys are all over poshmark!

2021-02-08T00:08:18+00:00

I had to warn a girl about this just yesterday.

annrike1 · 2021-02-08T14:38:12+00:00

I want to share my story related to this topic. I was thinking about making a seperate post, but since it is not related to dating I want to comment on this video.

I was the vicitim of fetish mining when I was a child. For my own privacy I am going to use fake names, fake online plattforms and fake city names.

When I was 14 I met a 23 year old men who was half chinese and half british. I am from Britian and he grew up there too. I wrote to him on his birthday to leave him birthday wishes. We started chatting for days, I stayed up all night to write with him. He gave me compliments and I had a crush on him. However I was not interested in sex or anything like that. I always thaught my age was a obstruction for him. Today I know he is likely a pedo.

One of the things he liked was taking a shower with his clothes on. I send him pictures of me with clothes on, completely wet (but with no face) to show him I did the challenge. He asked me if we could make a bet and the loser had to take a shower with clothes on. I thaught nothing of it, I even told him I like foam partys to show him how "fun" I was. I was completely oblivious to the fact, that it was his fetish. He told me he was asexual. Month passed and he told me about a female friend, putting cake down her pants and how happy and exited it made him feel. I dont want to get into more detail here, but from that moment on I knew, that it was his fetish. All of a sudden I couldnt send him pictures anymore, because I knew, it was sexual for him and I was still a teenager. But we were still friends and he sent me gifts to my home, tshirts with his perfume on, a music box ..

He never was my friend and looking back it makes me just uncomfortable/sad.

I am now over 24 years old and he visited me once without me having told him were I live. It scared me. When I was 14-16 we were (online) "friends", then almost no contact. To sad part is, I didnt realise he wanted to groom me, until I was 25. The moment I turned 25 it hit me like a brik.

My advice to all teenagers and girls under 25: Dont be friends with older men/boys. Dont give them the benefit of the doubt. No man with a good heart wants to be friends with girls younger then him, they are all pedos.

Starsuponstars · 2021-02-08T05:30:59+00:00

I have auditory processing issues, so I could not sit through 25 minutes of this woman talking so fast in a heavy accent. If someone could post a summary of her ideas that would be great.

Title	"Fetish Mining". Yet Another Way Women are Targeted Online.
Author	EarthKveik
Upvotes	147
Comments	20
Date	February 7, 2021 7:08 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/let23l/fetish_mining_yet_another_way_women_are_targeted/
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