I. Am. Raging. Right. Now.

I went out for coffee last night with this guy I met on Tinder and had been talking to for about a week. We hit it off. I thought it might be fun to take him home on the first date. I’m an adult and I wanted sex and here it was. Sex was great, very attentive lover, nothing weird. Lots of cuddles and talking. He kissed me goodbye before he left and said “Please try to sneak out and see me. I don’t think I can go 9 days without seeing you.” (My parents arrive from out of state in a few hours)

I was completely floored when 20 minutes after he left, I received a video with his voice saying how I had a great time, sex was great, you’re a smart amazing girl, but there was no spark, I’m looking for the love of my life, I won’t be sending anymore messages. Along with a text that said “I’m sorry, I wish you all the best”

I think I would have been ok if this was an agreed upon one night stand, but this guy was laying it on thick. I don’t want a lecture. I know I was an idiot. I won’t ever do this again.

I’d like to fuck his life up a little bit though. He blocked me on Instagram prior to sending his message. Like that will stop me. He manages the social media for a large car dealership and is in their commercials and also is in sales. I have a video of his voice of him being an absolute douche.

I’m so angry. I will sleep on this. But I’m wondering what your thoughts are about posting this video under a burner account and tagging him. Will I get into legal trouble? I want him to think twice about doing this to another girl, although I doubt he will.

Fuck I am so stupid. STD testing over Thanksgiving vacation. Oh what fun.