I’ve learned that when men accuse their partners of certain things, it’s because they are in fact doing those things. They assume everyone else must also be a total shitbag like them and become paranoid. I messaged this poster with a little advice. 😚

mitzislippers · 2021-02-14T19:57:29+00:00

my exes all did that. one that stands out tho, we were having a amazing vacation when he randomly picked a fight and went thru my phone (surprise he didn’t find anything) found out later he was cheating and got somebody else pregnant! welp

sassyheather · 2021-02-14T20:04:42+00:00

I realized that so long ago. Both my exes accused me of cheating because they were cheating. I was never doubting them because I was always faithful. They didn’t deserve my love and loyalty.

fdssavedmylife · 2021-02-14T21:19:04+00:00

Men use this logic against women all the time on Reddit, but I just don’t think it’s true both ways. Women usually accuse men of cheating because they’re doing some shady shit. I’ve never cheated, but I’ve been suspicious many times. Just food for thought.

Exsqueeze_meh · 2021-02-14T20:13:48+00:00

OMG i only just joined whisper today to see what it was ... what a disgusting 🤢 platform. Deleting now!

Mcccy · 2021-02-14T19:57:14+00:00

He's definitely cheating

letsberealforamoment · 2021-02-15T03:37:23+00:00

Yes. My exh would accuse me of being with other men. He wasnt cheating though, at least with a human. Turned out he was s secret, severe alcoholic drinking in secret and lying to me about it. So he would get drunk and accuse me of cheating. Cause he was able to hid it so well that it made him paranoid that i wss doing something nefarious behind his back.

dollymyfolly · 2021-02-14T22:01:43+00:00

Literally always

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