Make them work, make them wait.

sadpourtoujours · 2020-07-04T23:52:41+00:00

This is the rule that needs to be learned by ALL WOMEN. Stop getting emotionally attached to men who are not your boyfriend or your husband! You will wait to have sex but won’t wait to give away your heart? Throw all that emotional shit in the trash until he’s proved himself to you, committed to you, and shown you he wants to be with you for the long haul.

2340000 · 2020-07-04T22:31:15+00:00

Earned it, but also demonstrated that they value your trust and commitment.

kaoutanu · 2020-07-05T04:48:47+00:00

And for gods sake don't have his baby till he's done all of the above 🤦‍♀️

I'm looking at you, 50% of the posters on relationshits. Contraceptives exist for a reason. Abortions exist for a reason. If he's sleeping with your mom and kicking your dog now, he'll get worse, not better after you're bound to him for life by a baby.

Babies trap the woman, not the man.

MakeURegret · 2020-07-05T02:10:30+00:00

I absolutely hate how crushes are so romanticized in pop culture (at least in my experience in the US).

It was so mindboggling for me to read here in the beginning that crushes should be avoided. Like wait what??? “But it feels so good and fun and I can’t control it.”

But nope it’s just like any other feeling - you can control it - and too much of a good thing is a bad thing. The emotional equivalent of eating a whole cake - sure tastes/feels good but completely unhealthy.

laylafell · 2020-07-05T11:15:14+00:00

This post says a lot about my love life and i hate that i just figured it out sooo late.

Title	Make them work, make them wait.
Author	meezapizza
Upvotes	443
Comments	13
Date	July 4, 2020 10:27 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hlbznr/make_them_work_make_them_wait/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/make-them-work-make-them-wait.703744 https://theredarchive.com/post/703744

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