Hi, so I’m kind of turning to vent here because I’m livid. I was hanging out with my friend at her boyfriends house and he had a few of his buddies over. We were discussing relationships and my friend asked “what can girls do as the equivalent to getting flowers for a guy” trying to be thoughtful. After a brief period of this scrotes pea brain loading, he giggled and said “getting head”. At this point his buddies laugh and I’m disgusted but it gets worse. My friend snaps back “that’s not an object that’s not what I mean” and he responds “yeah it is YOURE the object”. I’ve never been so angry in my fucking life how dare he say that. She tried to tell me later that he was just joking but of course that’s just her parroting this douchebags NVM excuse for sexism. I can’t stand it.