So heres a few things Ive learned in my dating life.

1: Never get too attached (IN THE BEGINNING)

There is always a possibility that he can snatch the magic carpet from under your feet and ride off into the sunset with his ex.

For this reason, give him a nickname. This will help you think of him like an object (because he is, for your purposes)

Example: Greg works for MTA, so I save him in my phone as Bus Driver. When I talk about him to my friends, I refer to him as bus driver. When I'm with him I call him babe, because at this point I literally forgot his name.

You are doing this in the beginning so that you yourself dont get too carried away with the dating, because you are unsure of his motive. Once you get serious you can do away with this method, because at that point you are dating only him.

(If you forget his name peek at his credit card when hes paying for dinner)

  1. Block Dates. One time I had a guy tell me he was "addicted" to me which made me very curious because I gave him the least effort. He left his gf for me and it made me hate him even more because she seemed like a nice girl. Anyway, I realized the reason he was obsessed is because he would only see me on Tuesdays and Thursdays when he was in my town for classes. Every time he would give me oral sex which I rewarded him with nothing or leftover food I had cooked from earlier that day or week. I was dominant and he submit accordingly.

Its IMPERATIVE that you are not always available and that you are not giving 100%. Men are hunters. If they see you as easy prey they will become apathetic towards you and in life.

  1. KNOW YOURSELF.

We are all different and all ultimately looking for something. Identify what you are looking for and do not settle for a potential. Deal with the facts.

If he says he's looking for casual sex: BLOCK HIM

You cannot change a man who is made to use or dominate you, and you dont want to ever be dominated by a red pilled man.

  1. Make him useful.

Throw little hints that you need things done and see how quick he is to deliver. If he is not trying to do you favors or help you in any capacity, hes juat waiting for an opportunity to fuck. This guy is wasting your time at best.

  1. This should have been 1

BE A FUCKING QUEEN

That means, look the part. Dress the part. Nod and smile. Dont give too much information. Dont give him your social media unless its limited and spotless. Get manicured, pedicured, professional pictures, hair extensions and a tight dress.

The only thing men really care about when courting is

A. Does she look good B. Can she support her/our lifestyle C. Do we have things in common

So all you really have to do is look good and have class and they will approach you.

  1. Meditate

This might sound corny but when your mind is cluttered you dont have space to properly categorize and identify what type of man youre dealing with, and things can go left fast if you make a minor mistake like getting too drunk and talking too much

If I think of more Ill post later Hope this helps!

EDIT: on #2 where under "Block Dates" I dont mean to block him from taking you on a date, I mean to have dates in your calendar that you tell him you are simply unavailable that day, obviously in this scenario you will offer him other avalabilities you do have. Example: never be available on thursdays