Preserving our spirit. Another reason to block/delete!

preppykat3 · 2021-10-30T02:09:26+00:00

I had a guy msg me on fb recently, from a dating app I met two years ago. He threatened to rape me because I didn’t want to give him another chance. He literally had the audacity to msg me on fb as if nothing happened saying “hey! How’s it been??”

aluriaphin · 2021-10-29T19:25:33+00:00

As a young pick me I gave my number to this ancient billionaire who expressed interest in me when I was visiting his vacation town for a couple of nights. (Five hours away from my hometown, different country for him. He'd go there every summer.) He said he'd text me to meet up on my last night, never did, and then every six months like clockwork I'd get a fucking breadcrumb text from this rich old scrote. This went on for YEARS, like I'd float across his mind and he'd send a text to keep tabs on me. Never responded after the first few times. I went from amused to bemused to pissed off. That was five years ago and I guarantee you don't remember what I look like, ytf are you doing this?? I think I actually texted him that the last time and it seems to have stopped now but then again, scrotes, uh, find a way... 🦖🤣🤡

apommom · 2021-10-29T19:30:07+00:00

You did the right thing. I was in a similar situation and would hook up with a guy (also “celeb”) every time we happened to be in the same city. When I was younger I thought nothing of it. In the past year he love bombed me and future faked me into a “relationship” and I totally fell for it. I was left devastated when I realized who he really was, and it took all I had to block him. This experience led me to FDS and I’m super grateful because my self esteem is now much higher.

I can totally relate to how you’re feeling. It can be a lot of work to protect ourselves and our spirit/energy, but it’s totally worth it. See is as a sign of growth!

oceanbreeze88 · 2021-10-30T04:27:52+00:00

I have learned, as someone who has also dated, friends, or just hung out with. etc with several celebrities, that power and fame and money mean nothing when it has to do with a good candidate for a friendship or relationship (well it’s nice if they have a good character…) Only if it’s work related fine. But personal wise, it can be even more dangerous because they have connections and such and power, etc if they feel you cross them. I used to be excited for these relationships when I was more naive, but in my opinion you need to “vet” or discern these people and their character behind the facade even more so than with someone with less influence.

nothingt0say · 2021-10-30T05:16:34+00:00

I feel this!! I saw my X in person fairly regular for a while. Now that I am avoiding all contact again, I am in a much better mood again. Even tho I have a lot on my plate right now, I am keeping away from been there done that and it feels so right. Not dating or even flirting. Chilling w my girls when we get the time. 🖤

Title	Preserving our spirit. Another reason to block/delete!
Author	plomerst
Upvotes	173
Comments	7
Date	October 29, 2021 6:24 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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