I used to check my apps get overly invested in matches, putting too much thought into strangers and worrying about dating. But after reading the handbook, something clicked. I am still learning but i do not care about these dudes. I am ruthless, no bullshit but chill and level headed. I am so damn confident now, because I am a Queen. I notice men are gravitated towards me now haha. Another result- I see other women as Queens! Yesterday walking to the gym, I was like WOW my city has sooo many beautiful women. Rather than feel competitive, I uphold them. And then I got sad because I did not see many attractive males haha. Anyway, I feel good. Thanks guys, at 35..I never thought I would get here. It’s like years of therapy in literally a short period of time.

To the user who sent me a message directing me here: THANK YOU πŸ™πŸΎ I hope to pay it forward.