Relation between abuse and surgery, beauty practices aren’t discussed

eatchickpeas · 2022-01-16T13:40:59+00:00

its easier for society to act like lil kim was just too insecure about her body/face instead of focusing on WHY she felt the need to change herself and why a man thought it was okay to put his hands on her. shes endured so much abuse from the men in her life both personal and business. her partner was abusive and controlling, her workplace kept pushing the whole 'light skin beauty' nonsense. OF COURSE shes going to want surgery if shes being continually pressured and bullied but people dont want to confront that. they instead act like 'well she was SO beautiful before, its her fault she ruined herself. she was too vain and selfish'

edwardianemerald · 2022-01-16T12:20:52+00:00

I did not know this! The only articles from the horrible biased media I've read on Lil Kim are those bashing her appearance

MsWriteNow07 · 2022-01-16T14:59:04+00:00

And let’s discuss “the no self-love” part. Misogynoir is abuse, too. BM love to talk about women like Kim not loving themselves but are mighty fucking quiet when it comes to why. Ugly ass fuckboys like Biggie who hate themselves spew their own insecurities on to BW and make them feel like they have to change to be good enough. At the root of every BW with “low self-esteem” is BM. Let’s talk about that part

Pahapan · 2022-01-16T14:31:28+00:00

And even if nothing she got done was corrective, how is it not considered violence that we live in a racist society that shits on Black features to such an extent that GORGEROUS Black women struggle with such bad image issues that they turn to shit like skin lightening and nose jobs? The misogynoir in this country is off the fucking charts.

Title	Relation between abuse and surgery, beauty practices aren’t discussed
Author	iacint
Upvotes	397
Comments	11
Date	January 16, 2022 10:36 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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