Revenge...anyone?

lasolterita · 2019-12-21T21:53:33+00:00

I feel like revenge shows you care too much. I love cutting all contact ice cold and they're usually creeping back asking how I've been a month or two later, and then I just leave them on read. That's why I would also refrain from writing huge paragraphs or having long fights when it comes to break ups (if they don't want me, I'll sure as hell not gonna fight for them). Show them they ain't shit and you can do without them. That's the worst you can do to the male ego.

FemclFleshBeckyBones · 2019-12-21T22:31:41+00:00

That would mean exerting energy that would be put to better use elsewhere, like self improvement. I'm a big proponent of the idea that the best revenge is a life well-lived. Someone can do something horrible to you but if you can work through it and come out better for the adversity then you win, hands down.

blackopium777 · 2019-12-22T00:04:45+00:00

My mother always said: "If you play with shit, don't be surprised that you will get dirty" and I live by that. Let the piece of shit be shit. I don't play with shit.

ralviee · 2019-12-21T23:10:34+00:00

In a word? No. Revenge is petty and a waste of energy. Focus on self improvement instead, where the fruits of your labor can be enjoyed for a long time to come. There are countless people who care about you and want to see you succeed, so by putting your energy towards that, you’re benefitting yourself and everyone who cares about you. Much better in my opinion.

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2019-12-21T21:56:43+00:00

I need more info.

1) Do you live with the guy?

2) Have you already broken up?

3)Are you on each other’s social media?

4) How badly did he play you?

turquoiseblues · 2019-12-22T00:45:14+00:00

“Before embarking on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.”

BirdE13 · 2019-12-22T01:28:07+00:00

The best revenge is you one day finding a wonderful man that gives you everything and you living a happy and successful life together. Meanwhile your loser ex is still trying to play the same games and wondering why it’s not working anymore. Really revenge is never worth the energy and will probably leave you feeling icky. I prefer to trust that God or karma is sending what he deserves his way

Saitschik · 2019-12-21T23:55:36+00:00

I take the chance for revenge if life offers it to me but I am not going after it or force it. Obsessing over revenge poisens your mind.

husheveryone · 2019-12-22T02:23:57+00:00

“Living well is always the best revenge.” “The opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference.”

Morgan6788 · 2019-12-22T08:00:58+00:00

The opposite of love isn't hate it is apathy. Men want attention even if it is negative. They are testosterone animals that want to fight. They LOVE the crazy bish confirmation that comes with physical/noticable revenge. It makes them feel better about the brake up.

The best revenge is self improvement. Tons of pictures doing activities with friends, career/education advancements, and fitness goals. Throw in some dates he hears through the grapevine, but not a boyfriend right way. (To avoid "She was already cheating on you with blank" stupid comments)

This is what destroys a mans ego. He was so unimportant that it looks like you don't even remember he existed. He was so unimportant that you are easily able to achieve more without him. It reminds him you were out of his league and he had one chance with you and he lost it.

When he hits you up later you'll leave him on read bc he is nothing. If he can't have sex with you or a relationship he will atleast want to fight with you. Bc some attention is better than nothing.

Men don't deserve the energy of revenge but you do do. Men only deserve justice for their crimes.

wowthispostissad · 2019-12-22T09:09:51+00:00

Not into it. Better to report and block and live your best life, not giving a shit if he notices or not.

neatturtlegamera · 2019-12-21T21:53:21+00:00

When they break up with you they always regret it and try to come crawling back so that's revenge enough.

Title	Revenge...anyone?
Author	Sansa_read
Upvotes	14
Comments	17
Date	December 21, 2019 9:46 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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