Setting boundaries without seeming attached or mean

randomgirlimok · 2019-11-26T02:49:06+00:00

A guy that actually wants a relationship with you: “aw, she remembered my birthday!”

Fuckboi: “why is she mentioning my birthday...she’s getting too attached. I better say something to make it clear that I don’t want her part of my personal life and that this is just casual.”

understatedalways · 2019-11-26T01:44:53+00:00

He sounds like a low value fuckboy. Say nothing and ghost him. I guarantee it will get worse and you’ll wish you heeded this advice.

ino_y · 2019-11-26T02:36:10+00:00

How is having a normal memory freakish? Fuck this guy. Don't ever be made to feel ashamed of your .. normal.. talents. Dont make yourself small to accommodate a dickhead.

turquoiseblues · 2019-11-26T01:10:59+00:00

The "freak" comment was disrespectful. He'll probably do that sort of thing again, or worse.

rad_daphne · 2019-11-26T02:45:46+00:00

Tells you he remembers and cares about nothing you say.

Ms_Tilly · 2019-11-26T18:28:12+00:00

When I do things like that a guy's whole attitude will change to one of gratitude. Like wow, you actually listened to me. I had one actually cry on me, which was a bit weird, but I do like the weird ones. If a man called me a freak for listening to him, that would be the last he heard from me.

Title	Setting boundaries without seeming attached or mean
Author	Eccedentesiastically
Upvotes	10
Comments	15
Date	November 26, 2019 12:19 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e1pl1h/setting_boundaries_without_seeming_attached_or/
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