Should I drop him?

SuitablePerformance3 · 2021-06-13T19:54:46+00:00

Read the handbook, and next time post this to r /askFDS, thank you.

pretty_kill · 2021-06-13T19:27:51+00:00

Move on and don’t worry about him unless he makes the effort for a date. Don’t let him hold you up from meeting other men. You aren’t exclusive with him, and FDS encourages us to be open to dating multiple men at once.

Basic-Fruit-6502 · 2021-06-13T19:27:06+00:00

Maybe give it until a certain date and if still nothing then it sounds like he’s stringing you along and it’s time to move on. Also until he firmly sets a proper date, keep your options open, it’s very early days. Good luck! ♥️

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2021-06-13T19:42:21+00:00

He didn't reschedule. I would just delete the number and stop texting. It's a dead end.

That doesn't mean anything bad about you or that you're the problem. It just means he isn't willing to invest time into you, so don't invest time or thought into him.

lemonheaddass · 2021-06-13T19:32:16+00:00

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fireforestfairy · 2021-06-13T19:24:48+00:00

Don't remind him and see if he bothers to organise another date. If he remembers to organise one, then he probably cares about you.

Kimpractical · 2021-06-13T19:39:51+00:00

If he ever uses the word “busy”, dump him. The word busy is ALWAYS code word for him being not that invested in you. If he really wanted to date you he would have set a time and day already

sleepysiri · 2021-06-13T19:43:19+00:00

If he wanted to, he would.

azureangel35 · 2021-06-13T19:51:15+00:00

yes, you should. if he wanted to date you he would make an effort. I'm not trying to be harsh but you need to read the handbook. it's already giving you anxiety. dating should be fun and stress free, not an anxious session of second guessing yourself.

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Title	Should I drop him?
Author	lemonheaddass
Upvotes	11
Comments	21
Date	June 13, 2021 7:20 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/nz3p80/should_i_drop_him/
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