Sigh...... block and delete. She made a logical conclusion at the end and still wants to keep him around?!

crapcakes0987 · 2020-11-26T17:11:24+00:00

Imagine if women did something like this holy crap. I’m gonna talk to another man if you don’t give me money.

stayforskz · 2020-11-26T17:17:42+00:00

All I know is this ain't love and the person you date isn't supposed to pressure you or make you feel uncomfortable.

napdt · 2020-11-26T17:23:07+00:00

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yesmme · 2020-11-26T17:24:37+00:00

“How big of a red flag is this?” That’s not a red flag. Those are SEVERAL red flags. She also knows that he is a rapist and she is doing mental gymnastics.

I wish it was engrained in our heads to leave the moment we are not comfortable. That no matter how hot, how much he gets us hot, how sweet he seems—none of these things salvage him from pressuring for nudes, threatening to cheat, threatening to break up. Throw him in the trash

ManchurianCantaloupe · 2020-11-26T18:31:13+00:00

i'm in that stage tho where I'm daydreaming about him being my boyfriend and our future together cuz that's what girls do.

sigh. Let's normalize deprioritizing men's importance in our lives, please.

Especially the kind that see no issue with emotionally blackmailing and coercing you into sex acts, ffs.

allergictoscrotes · 2020-11-26T17:49:16+00:00

I saw this thread too 😔 thank god all the top comments were telling her to leave him. I hope she listens.

throwmefaraway85 · 2020-11-26T17:36:58+00:00

She is very naive and I worry she could make bad decisions, also I couldn't find the post but I think the comments could be misleading (somebody saying trust is important, etc). Can you invite her here?

dollymyfolly · 2020-11-26T19:06:12+00:00

“I thought he liked me for more than sex-,” he doesn’t.

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-11-26T18:19:57+00:00

Wow that’s such a shame she had to deal with this bullshit. This is why you don’t try to turn a hook up into a relationship. Those relationships were only based on sex rather than getting to know the person. He’s such a piece of shit for threatening to dump her over nudes. They’re not even in a relationship and he’s using the nudes as leverage, holding a possible relationship on a stick. If she were to give the nudes he’d stop seeing her and probably share them with his friends. I guy I saw tried to persuade me to send nudes. I knew better because he wouldn’t delete them and he told all my business to his friends.

2020-11-26T18:26:31+00:00

Hmmm someone needs to link her here, she had enough sense to realize his true intentions but not enough to cut him out completely. We need to show her that her suspicions are absolutely correct and this scrote just wants to use her. There’s hope for her still!

Sage_Planter · 2020-11-26T23:00:43+00:00

He says he wants nudes, and he says how important it is to receive pics and videos in a relationship.

Find the most glorious assortment of hairy fat man nude pics and send them along. Maybe like a duck dick or two? I don't know. Mix it up?

Malicious compliance, then block and delete.

myousername · 2020-11-26T21:49:01+00:00

"He's a tad bit off" = he's waving a million red flags I choose to ignore

Title	Sigh...... block and delete. She made a logical conclusion at the end and still wants to keep him around?!
Author	crapcakes0987
Upvotes	160
Comments	17
Date	November 26, 2020 5:07 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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