Why does the concept of hypergamy make men so angry? Why do they think that it is proof that women are evil when they simultaneously subscribe to the idea that men are naturally polyamorous, need to spread their seed and value a woman with looks/youth above all else?

Women have only been given basic human rights in the last 100 years and they’ve already proven that they also want careers, they want to be able to pull their own weight financially, they want their own hobbies and lives outside of relationships. They want children and value having a man who wants all of those things as well to build that life with them.

You read these men question ‘what do women bring to the relationship besides sex? I can just buy sex from multiple women and it’ll be cheaper than investing in one woman!’

Women do bring a lot to the table. Emotional labour that men are unable to get from anywhere else, compassion, children, a warm home, friendship, knowledge, a second income… But they’re the ones that are quick to say a woman’s degree, how much money she makes, how well travelled she is, what her experiences have taught her that she can teach him – don’t matter to them. The reason they are so convinced that women bring nothing to the table besides their looks and sex is because that’s all these low quality men WANT in a woman. Further than that, if your job does bring in more money than his he is less likely to be interested because it makes him feel emasculated, will blame feminism for allowing women into the work force and taking the jobs that should rightful be theirs, despite them not having done anything to get them! Fuck feminism!

These men seek to ‘date down’ because it allows them to never have to improve themselves while they can sit and stroke their egos about how much of a man they are. A high quality woman in this day and age makes them feel insecure because they know that these women will survive without them. They know they can get a job an education and even children all alone. They know they can get sex and attention from other men. They can learn how to maintain their house and cars alone and hiring help really isn’t that expensive either. Hell, getting men to do it for free for you is damn easy as well.

It’s not all perfect for women though. One thing they are right about is that our biology does make us more vulnerable. We are physically weaker which makes vetting for abusive personalities more important. We are more susceptible to STIs and the ones that get pregnant, which means vetting for sexual partners is more important. We will most likely have to at least slow down if not even halt our careers for months/years at a time due to pregnancy and raising children (the task of which still falls predominantly on women’s shoulders), which means vetting for someone who will be able to provide is more important. We are the ones that have a way tighter time restriction on fertility, which means there is no point in wasting time with men who can’t prove themselves as worthy of it.

And this is where hypergamy comes into play. Why marry someone who doesn’t add something to your life? Why give your all to man who a) doesn’t even value any of it besides your looks and “holes” (vomit) and b) can’t give you anything that you are unable to achieve on your own?

Build your-self. Work on your career, on your hobbies, on your friendships. Value your body, keep it fit and healthy. Invest in your mental health and have experiences that help you grow and learn. Find out what it is you want out of your life and only allow a man to take your time and effort when he can prove that he will be able to help build that with you.

Worst comes to worse and you can’t find this man, find yourself a couple of girlfriends and buy a villa where you can live your best life together like these bad bitches.