Strip club dilemma

backforbeskar · 2020-03-12T20:54:47+00:00

TBH more worried about his clown ass female friend having her birthday in a female strip club. Best example of “cool girl” behavior. RIP to her.

kwalden2 · 2020-03-12T20:15:26+00:00

See if he uses you as a fall guy. If he does, next him. Even if he was open to going at the invitation of mixed company, is that a dealbreaker for you?

But yet also, how strange is that invitation? A straight woman thinking "Oh I know where to go for MY birthday! Female strip club!!" What kind of strange people is he friends with?! She does sound like a pickme honestly. Is he typically surrounded by that kind of energy?

2020-03-12T17:58:20+00:00

If they do judge you, let them. Stop caring about their opinion. If your boyfriend uses you as the fall guy, if this is brought up again, then consider dropping him.

EmoPupPup · 2020-03-12T20:35:47+00:00

My biggest question about all of this is why is keeping friendships with people who go to strip clubs? Your friends and relationship are an extension of you. So if he sees no issue with other people going to strip clubs the he himself has no issue with strip clubs. He sees no issue with others objectifying women, therefore he sees no issue in objectifying women.

Furthermore, if you are already worried about what his friends will think about you then you don’t like his friends. If you are already worried that he’ll use you as the reason he isn’t going, then he has already “thinged” you. So do you really what to be with someone who sees you as an object and who’s friends you don’t like? Yuck.

Kekekeke7777 · 2020-03-13T01:22:21+00:00

I don’t like that he asked you either. Like, “mom can I please just go in and say hi? I promise I won’t stay.”

radical__daphne · 2020-03-12T17:20:26+00:00

It sounds like he wanted to go. And you'll probably now end up the fall guy for why he didn't.

ChocoBananza · 2020-03-12T20:00:17+00:00

Of course he wanted to go. But the thing is - he didn’t. You told him how you feel and he respected that. I don’t see how would that make him LVM.

Title	Strip club dilemma
Author	splendiferousmeatbol
Upvotes	33
Comments	13
Date	March 12, 2020 4:25 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fhizme/strip_club_dilemma/
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