This read was recommended to me on the Radical_Feminists sub. It's 47 pages and exposes some of men's behaviors in a relationship that are not considered violence, but still reduce women's independence and happiness. It's mostly manipulation tactics used in relationships, but a lot of them I've seen elsewhere too. If you liked Why does he do that, I think you will also like this.

It was published in 2006, so some of the behaviors are now considered to be domestic abuse, especially the two first categories. Some of the behaviors also have different or more recent names, for example, mental load, emotional labor and gaslighting.

I recognized SO MANY of these behaviors in past relationships. It truly made my blood boil. I think having words put on these manipulations really help to identify them and recognizing their impacts. Here is the link, if it doesn't work let me know.

Everyday Male Chauvinism PDF