That’s a no from me, dawg...

B_Project · 2020-01-29T03:42:56+00:00

Wow he is literally advertising for a pick-me. Sounds like he also wants her to fund his “travel, new restaurants” while he pays you back with “tv shows, playing pool and relaxing” so how about a coffee date to start it off?

LOL PASS

NoThisIs-Patrick · 2020-01-29T04:20:37+00:00

The fact that he needs to put something like that on his OLD profile screams issues to me. I've never once gone out with a dude who didn't at least offer/attempt to pay for me on our first date, even when I was super into "paying my way".

I don't even see the need to put this on a dating profile, especially if you want to meet for a coffee date for the first time. You can talk about how you like going dutch during one your first few dates. Or it can be a line in your profile. Why does it need to be a blurb in your images? I just can't with these men.

MagicAte_8 · 2020-01-29T06:28:42+00:00

Uh, wouldn't it be insulting to pay for a King? That would be implying he couldn't afford what you're helping him out with. I'm thinking an actual monarch here.

Like, if you were on a date with a Saudi prince and you insisted on paying for your own cracker jack I'm pretty sure he'd be insulted and at the very least take it as a sign of disinterest.

jewdy09 · 2020-01-29T03:30:52+00:00

If it’s a first date, he isn’t my man. He isn’t my man until he shows me that he wants to be by acting like a HVM.

Honestly, I have no expectations that a man will pay for everything when we are in a committed relationship unless he is exceedingly wealthy. I’m not a gold digger, I not looking for a sugar daddy. I’m looking for a partner and when and if I find him, we will build a better life together than either of has on our own.

But, I’m sure as shit not supporting another man again (barring illness or injury down the road after).

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-01-29T05:06:23+00:00

Pickmeisha never ceases to amaze me with her brazenness.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2020-01-29T14:01:11+00:00

The “coffee date” at the end sealed the deal. LOL!

prowlings · 2020-01-29T08:57:43+00:00

This is gross on many levels LMAO. What kind of matches is he getting?

freerollerskates · 2020-01-29T12:48:39+00:00

I struggle with the "never offering to pay for anything at all" thing. I am recovering from a financially abusive relationship though and I struggle with the idea of being "bought". Paying for the odd token thing (like some popcorn when he's bought dinner and the movie tickets and a drink at the bar or one round of drinks when he's bought all the rest) seems like a reasonable thing to do. I get it, I'm just in a period of adjusting.

2020-01-30T05:43:04+00:00

I avoid anyone who self-identifies as laid back. I've learned that when they put that on their dating profile, it means that they are passive aggressive and want you to think that they are laid back

2020-01-30T05:44:01+00:00

That's a great deal for him, he gets to do all kinds of stuff for half the cost! What is better for LVM than a travel buddy to split the hotel bill with and have sex with?

Title	That’s a no from me, dawg...
Author	GuineveresGrace
Upvotes	44
Comments	14
Date	January 29, 2020 3:21 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/evgyrn/thats_a_no_from_me_dawg/
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