I posted here desperate for someone to knock some sense into me regarding my abusive boyfriend, thankfully some of you did and I've now been free from him for over a month :)

He was only ever emotionally and verbally abusive to me, but I spoke to his ex girlfriend the other day and found out he was physically and sexually abusive to her. I'm sure things would have eventually spiralled to that level if I'd stayed.

I remember finding this sub and spending hours reading through the posts, seeing over and over again hundreds of amazing women telling me that I deserve better. And it worked!!

I'm not dating right now, I'm rebuilding friendships and putting in more effort at work and doing everything he stopped me from doing 💪 and I am so grateful for you, the tough love was exactly what I needed when everyone else around me was too scared or too polite to be honest with me. You've changed my life. I'll never waste my time on such a leech again ❤️