Thoughts? I actually really agree with her. Being rich doesn’t automatically equal HVM and I think that’s a rookie mistake.

betsybasset · 2021-06-03T14:22:09+00:00

Of course.

Having $$$ or super hot bod is his character and effort towards HIMSELF.

Respectful unentitled manner and consistent effort towards women is what makes a man HVM.

don't expect them to admit this though. They'll resort to the usual effortless projection: women just want 6-6-6!!🤬🤬

purasangria · 2021-06-03T14:47:01+00:00

A high value man IS the prize; she's just confused and conflating high value with high income.

Most of the high income men I've dated are trash, just like the regular broke trash men.

splendiddiamonds · 2021-06-03T15:19:45+00:00

The rookie mistake I see 100x per day in this sub is assuming that every rule/statement is supposed to work in reverse.

Someone says "A HVM will pay for your dinner" and then there's someone replying, "that's not true, a guy paid for my dinner and he was low value!!" That's not what OP said!! "HVM -> pays for dinner" does NOT automatically reverse to "Pays for dinner -> HVM". These are NOT bidirectional claims.

All oranges are fruits, but not all fruits are oranges. All HVM have the essential HVM qualities, but NOT all men who express one quality of being an HVM are automatically HVM

ButterfliesHurricane · 2021-06-03T14:28:16+00:00

The fact a man is rich can certainly (but does not automatically) demonstrate commendable character traits such as personal drive, desire for growth, entrepreneurship, resilience, hard work etc. It doesn’t necessarily mean this person will be a good partner, they might (of course they also may not) see you as a property / trophy they purchased or simply a maid/breeder. So we really need to remain aware and look at the whole picture: how is this person treating us, do they care and us, our feelings and wellbeing, etc?

Ideally, in my view a HVM is successful (which is not always measured in $$$) AND encourages us to be happy, healthy and independent. Supports us in our career and personal development and is not scared of us standing on our own two feet side by side with him.

Don’t put your entire happiness in a man, that includes financial welfare/happiness.

girl_in_red_costume · 2021-06-03T14:47:35+00:00

I never thought high value = rich men. Some rich dudes are high values, other aren't.

denimlace · 2021-06-03T14:43:47+00:00

I only agree to go out on dates with professionally successful men. Still have yet to find a HVM.

wordy_fries · 2021-06-03T15:32:23+00:00

Why Kevin Samuels is on the thumbnail? He is trash

fireforestfairy · 2021-06-03T14:46:13+00:00

I agree. Plenty of rich guys are horrible (eg. Bill Gates cheating on his wife).

Original1one · 2021-06-03T17:23:15+00:00

i've only dated successful accomplished men a few came from money and they were all trash....i have the years of mental abuse to show for it....keep vetting and let go without a ounce of remorse when you see a red flag.

Title	Thoughts? I actually really agree with her. Being rich doesn’t automatically equal HVM and I think that’s a rookie mistake.
Author	notsurewhatimdoing10
Upvotes	50
Comments	11
Date	June 3, 2021 2:10 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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