Today I realized there are absolutely no qualifications to be a sex columnist in a women’s magazine except the willingness to sleep around, lie, and feel self important enough to think someone should care about it. I’m pissed.😡

throwahweigh3521 · 2020-03-10T01:38:53+00:00

It would certainly ruin all the fun and profits if sex columnists had at the least a basic understanding of statistics, knowledge of survey instruments and appropriate applications of human subjects research.

Then there’s the legion of keyboard warriors that expect piv male orgasm centric advice- no freelancer who is making pennies per word wants death threats and doxing.

Sex advice is infotainment. Big time click bait. It’s definitely not a public service or educational based on peer review research. Bad advice for women is relatively common because it’s not supposed to be actual analysis of facts and adequately constructed studies. That shit isn’t a money maker.

jellyteas · 2020-03-10T01:16:26+00:00

Lie? What do you mean!? Of course these women have mind blowing orgasms from anal and choking blowjobs. No need for the clitorous or gags boring vanilla missionary /s

Radtron3000 · 2020-03-10T15:35:45+00:00

"Here's how to feign enjoyment when you're being sexually exploited"

FluffandRainclouds · 2020-03-10T02:56:56+00:00

We need some heavy-duty antidotes for the libfem BS!

Dr. Jen Gunter: https://mobile.twitter.com/DrJenGunter?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor

Go Ask Alice! At Columbia: https://health.columbia.edu/services/go-ask-alice

ScarleTeen: https://www.scarleteen.com/article/abuse_assault/why_i_deeply_dislike_your_older_boyfriend

I <3 Female Orgasm (it calls men out on the p*rn): https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/554627.I_Love_Female_Orgasm

hoIds_up_spork · 2020-03-10T03:22:18+00:00

damn, you didn't have to come for carrie's edges like this 😂

2020-03-10T01:33:39+00:00

I think the onus is on us to teach people that they ARENT positioning themselves as experts. They're just writing. There is no barrier to entry to write something online and it's not hard to start to get picked up by bigger and bigger sites. Not only is this what happens with sex writing, but this is also how you get your news. Pretty eye opening.

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