Sorry for my english! I just want to write a trick that several men use, obviously I fell for it, because I generally trust others.

the trick is this: tell a story that makes you look like a nice person. for example, he told me that he helped a friend to overcome a difficult moment, or that he had taught her kick boxing. a Another time he told me that he had gone miles on miles to go and take a male friend friend with the car broken down.

I obviously thought: what a good boy !! a heart of gold. then I discovered that they were all bullshit, this guy was the most selfish person of planet earth.

I then discovered by reading TRP that the technique has a name that is "Dimostrate high value, protector of love ones". Basically tell a story in which you are generous and good to your friends or family or people in general (or tell a story in which yoo look brave, or rich or adventourus ecc) And I think it's a really smart tactic and that most women are naive enough to fall for it. And I also think we should make a list of all the tactics used by abusive men or pua and how to defend from it (exactly like TRP have in their sidebar!!! )

to defend oneself from this tactic it is enough to remember that words or promises do not count for anything and a man must prove what he says with facts and sometimes even the facts lie, one can also pretend a gesture of generosity or kindness, so a single gesture means nothing , but many small repeated gestures every day are significant.