Just got back from a neighbors house. We usually have dinners together every week or so. It's a family with 2 kids, and I thought they were nice. They introduced me to another couple (On Monday) who also had kids and we all had dinner together then. They like to party. I realize they were grooming me for their sex things.

Tonight they invited me over to dinner with no kids with that other couple. I didn't realize that until I got there. A lot of sex talk was going on, which is fine at times cause we're humans. But honestly with everything going on in my life I could care less about sex right now. They then tell me how they all got together and went into detail. I was praying to God to get me out of there without being the "cool girl" about it. I know I was saying very agreeable things but my facial expressions were giving me away. I was weirded out.

The husband of my neighbor is nice but at times an LVM. He does care about his family though and I see that. The other man there, whom I've met twice now, seems like an NVM. He's 44 while his 2nd?3rd? wife, who was there, is 27. RED FLAG. I can tell he thinks he's hot shit when he's like a 3/10. The whole time he's talking about details of their 'sex adventures' I kept feeling incredibly sorry for this girl who was like a 7/10. She was pickmeisha-ing hard. He kept telling me to have an "open mind". Honestly, fuck that. I can be open without actually opening my legs, which is the situation they were trying to put me in.

I got out at the first opportunity I could take. YES, I know I could have said some stand-up shit and just left but I'm not there yet and I like my neighbor (the wife). We've become friends and I'm moving in a month so I figured I wouldn't make it weird for her.

Background: I am stuck in a lease for a few more weeks with my ex-pornsick LVM. I found FDS and I'm so grateful to have learned a lot. I got myself out of this situation while playing it cool and keeping myself safe. This whole situation just reminded me of porn and how the 3/10 guy was just as pornsick with probably a limp dick. It's pretty sad. I'm at the point of swearing men off and just keep leveling myself up. I just want to cook and travel anyway.

How would you have handled the situation?

Edit: I so appreciate the advise/comments/encouragement. I will not be having dinner at their house again and will avoid as much as possible. I did make comments back at the NVM guy, especially when the comment was made that "pussy smells like fish" LOL I said right back," you should see what women have to put up with from men with appendages hanging without being washed and men who don't wipe their pee from their dick." That conversation was hastily over.

The wife (neighbor) did just ask me if I was ok through message. It's being ignored and when I move, blocked.