Why do guys always think that looking for a relationship means you want to instantly be in a relationship with someone you just met?

Lunaelle7 · 2020-08-23T23:51:01+00:00

He’s literally gaslighting you throughout these texts. “Make a close friend causally without being too serious.” You know what that means babes

talldrankofH2O · 2020-08-23T23:52:28+00:00

They have no idea how women actually work and he just wants to gaslight you into being a booty call

Cookie_Duchess · 2020-08-24T00:07:25+00:00

Why do guys always think that looking for a relationship means you want to instantly be in a relationship with someone you just met?

Trust me- they don't think that. Men on OLD have created this tired old imaginary narrative that every woman is relationship obsessed and out to marry them after date #1. It's not real and he doesn't actually believe it. Everything he's saying to you in those paragraphs is a lie except for the part about wanting casual. All he wants is sex and he wants YOU to be monogamous to him- he'll still be on Bumble searching for a replacement for you for when he dumps you after you ask where it's going or what you're doing. Unmatch him sis.

Madholley · 2020-08-24T00:59:29+00:00

He is 100% a player. Sleeping with multiple women but getting their promise of fidelity. Honestly disgusting. Great of him to show his ass up front though! Boy byeeeeee

MakeURegret · 2020-08-24T00:22:23+00:00

“Make a close friend casually”

Kay.

Platipus6 · 2020-08-24T00:43:35+00:00

Pretends to be introspective, thoughtful, worldly, wise, have standards, morals, integrity, patience, and BOOM the pity-shot. He's beEn hUrT beFoRe.

Title	Why do guys always think that looking for a relationship means you want to instantly be in a relationship with someone you just met?
Author	Equipoisonous
Upvotes	12
Comments	9
Date	August 23, 2020 11:50 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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