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I agree! No need for that drama in our lives ladies. Life’s hard enough!
[–]ThrowRA745318FDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Oh, 100%. Especially for narcissistic, abusive relationships. It's so hard to see how awful those people are for you until you spend some time without them and suddenly, you feel like someone has untied the anchor from your feet and you can come up for air.
[–]aliengames666FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Right? If the lack of someone’s presence gives you serious relief it’s a good opportunity to look into why TF you have them around
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think you mean absence?
[–]ms_monquisFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think this is the only sub I have ever EVER had a productive disagreement on. (I largely credit the mods for that, btw. They keep a choke on people being asshats.)
[–]Purple-PeachesFDS Newbie55 points56 points57 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
This is such a mood, I’d rather be alone and happy, than with someone and miserable
[–]munakhtylerFDS Newbie42 points43 points44 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If someone is making you miserable, cut them out immediately. Nobody is worth sacrificing your mental health
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just learning this little lesson. Easier said than done sometimes, but still!
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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly!
[–][deleted] 32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This was my last relationship. I’d rather break my own heart by leaving than to continue in a relationship that keeps me up at night.
I sleep so much better now :)
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yaaassss! I feel that sister! ❤️
[–]ThesociodarkFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love this!
[–]oneheadlight312FDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Recently frustrated indeed. Boy bye.
[–]freedandelionsFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well said! I felt that too.
[–]CaligwenFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've been struggling with letting go of a roommate/former friend, and this is giving me that push!!
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Glad to hear it. It’s hard to do, but in the end your peace is worth more than the frustrations they cause!
[–]SilkyPurpleFlowersThrowaway Account6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At least we have our self-respect.
[–]theglossiernerdFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Laying in bed next to someone and feeling lonelier than being alone is truly awful
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That’s the truth. For a minute there I was losing both. Glad I came to my senses!
[–]LuciannaVampFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very well said. Will keep this in mind for the future. Thanks!
[–]coulntfindaname0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's an old saying on my native language that would translate to something like: "It's better to be alone that in bad company". It's a really popular one.
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