Or "you can trust me." No you can't. Anyone who says that to you is someone you should not trust. Sane, mentally healthy people know that in this world, it is hard and not beneficial to blindly trust people. Anyone who expects you to blindly trust them, or guilts you for not automatically trusting them, is entitled. Trust is a process that you cannot rush and it takes TIME. People who are trustworthy live in a way that ensures that what they do brings you a feeling of safety. They understand that trust comes from continual, sustained, caring, and thoughtful effort that happens over time. Trust has to be CULTIVATED. They are also understanding that you may have been hurt in the past, so they ensure that nothing they do betrays your trust or causes you to fear. They are essential careful with your heart. Trust is a sacred thing. Only give it when it is deserved.