Hi all,

I just found this sub and started posting a few days ago. I need to start by saying that I'm high-functioning autistic, so I'm used to not fitting in with the culture when I show up places. I don't let that affect me emotionally as much as it used to, but really still it is frustrating.

Nonetheless, when I post things trying to be constructive, the first & most upvoted comments are that feminism is bad and controls everything and that I am small and insignificant, kinda implying that there's nothing to be done. Even kind of implying that I'm doing something wrong by pushing for action.

It's true that feminism has gone off the deep end, but we can't over-reduce them like they do to us.

People here are posting very interesting criticisms & I have learned a lot already just reading other people's posts. I still have a lot to learn. But, I'm frustrated because I have spent years criticizing feminism and now I want to find something that moves us forward towards a more healthy society.

The guys in Gen Z are turning to the political right and that scares me. The Right isn't inherently evil but they need to hear some healthier messages from us sane, civil people (/s).

Can anything be done today that is more positive, more constructive & maybe a more productive approach to facing these issues?