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[–]LotBuilder338 points339 points340 points 4 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
If a marriage counselor doesn’t completely side with the women she will keep shopping for counselors until she finds one that does. This is per a female marriage counselor I know. She was a young naive feminist when she started but over the years she started hating women.
[–]Master_Golan91 points92 points93 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ha I knew it! This clarifies my suspicions, when my wife asked if I’d go to marriage counseling I denied her because I suspected she was just fishing for more ammo, everyone still criticizing me for it but separating was the smartest decision I ever made
[–]Chakra_Devourer29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Counseling is bullshit anyway. It's a waste of money.
[–]Fabianstrategy119 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Going to a counselor is just arming the opposition. She’s already decided she’ll divorce you.
[–]Deja_Siku74 points75 points76 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Man that's a really good point (haven't had to go to an MC myself, thankfully) but I can totally see why "we" would keep shopping around for counselors until they find that one who agrees. This is spot on man.
[–]Chaos19904 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There was a guy on here a while back who got dragged to 4 different counselors, until his wife got sick of being called our on her BS.
Rare, but it can happen.
[–]Yashugan0051 points52 points53 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
marriage counselling is an extension of the system. the gynocentrix machine designed to transfer money to women. she already decided she wants to leave and she'll use this to document her reasons in a court accepted way.
[–]BadDad0123425 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The last marriage counselor we saw was completely one sided it was insane.
[–]LotBuilder37 points38 points39 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If they want to keep you as a client they have to be. It’s not about fixing anything... it’s about getting you to keep showing up and paying
[–]betterforitall14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My ex loved the first visit to the marriage counselor because I sat quietly and let her spew her bullshit.
During the second visit the counselor turned on me based upon what my ex had told her.
Then I started dismantling the bullshit and pointing out the logical flaws. Then the counselor started talking to my ex about her behavior.
We never went back. My ex thought it was stupid.
All they want is someone in authority to be on their side.
[–]LotBuilder6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s how it always plays out. The counselor only does that if they want to run you off. If they want to keep you as a client they side with the woman and try to ride it for 8/9 months.
[–]Bravofoxtrot6695 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup had that happen to me.
[–]remoteAdapterProng5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Therapy is a woman's proffession and is mostly based on pseudo science. Most of the research in therapy are not reproducible compared to that of the hard sciences. For that reason, therapy can be used for the female imperative, that is extract money of beta males.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My mom did that haha
[–]JohnWicksSpentBrass4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
1000% truth. I went to a marriage counselor in my mid 20's during a very hard time in the marriage to my ex. When the counselor sided with me saying it is perfectly natural and understandable to want privacy and separate stuff like checking accounts, my ex FUMED for DAYS!!!! She was PISSED.
"You dont need to have privacy or separate stuff unless you have something to hide!" Were her exact words but I low key loved watching her blow her stack and be angry at anyone other than me for a change.
[–]paul_G11 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had a couples councilor once who I'm pretty sure actually wanted the girl I was with at the time tell her it was obvious I was cheating on her. He was telling her this shit after I stopped going to pay this fuckhead beta to just ask stupid questions. Anyway she went home believing it because that's what they do. Long story short don't waste a single second with these leeches and merchants of misery. If you aren't happy leave. Simple
[–]jrpark051 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LOL, yep. My mom and sister HATE most women, both said they'd much rather work with men then women, and I talk about MGTOW stuff all the time with them. They always tell me that they'd love to disagree with me, but know that what I'm saying is the truth.
[–]paul_G10 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And it does turn into a competition of who's more in the right than the other. Like I need to prove myself to some 45 year old creep. Fuck. That. Shit.
[–]Penitent-Sinner140 points141 points142 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Actually when I did marriage counseling, the counselor didn’t side with my wife at all. In fact both of them, one male one female, we changed because my ex thought a woman would be better since the male psychologist blamed her for the problems.
The woman said the same things, the marriage was one sided, she did less than the bare are minimum and the relationship continued solely because I willed it and on my dime. She didn’t even want the children. She just wanted to go to restaurants and travel even though we had 4 children one with cancer. Was a catastrophic waster of money. Didn’t want to work etc.
So buried under medical bills on top of her complaining she wanted to go eat sushi at Michelin rated restaurants with a kid in the hospital with a terminal illness. For once the judge didn’t side with the woman.
So we divorced, she did not want alimony and I kept the kids. It just feels like I wasted 8 years of my life though and I did.
so, marriage counselling prolonged the cancer and cost a lot of money. she even tried to shop around for a woman when the first man didn't side with her. what a waste
[–]basedmattnigga741 points42 points43 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What a heartless woman. Sorry for your situation but you sound like you’re handling it like a pro.
[–]McUserton26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I hope your kid is ok. I can't imagine the hell that just have been, or perhaps still is.
[–]Penitent-Sinner11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Kid pulled through but feels self conscious since mommy told her she’s ugly after chemo. This stuff is beyond heartless and makes me realize how fucked up life can be.
[–]Sock_Eating_Golden4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ehh... He used the term, "terminal illness." I doubt that had a positive outcome.
[–]McUserton1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I missed that. :-(
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s never their fault.
[–]FritzLn15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
life as a non-obese woman is disgustingly easy
[–]amazinglyaloneracist2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Hopefully you collect child support.
[–]Penitent-Sinner3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
From what a jobless bitch that wants to live off mommy? This is why men should never marry. Even when the outcome is in your favor you lose.
[–]amazinglyaloneracist1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Of course she should be put in jail then, but our gynocentric courts would never do that.
[–]nice_get_it0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
child support is a percentage of your salary, so if you don’t have a job, you don’t pay child support.
[–]Chaos19900 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You could still have it put in place, so if she does start making money, you get a cut.
[–]Chaos1990111 points112 points113 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Funny, but I wonder how many couples go to therapy together and he gets ignored while she does all the talking...
[–]rahmoune779 points80 points81 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Therapy is bullshit, do what your guts tells you , you dont like her she is nagging dump her 🔥✌️ never failed me once
[–]Idiot_Savant_Tinker33 points34 points35 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I learned a long time ago that motorcycles>therapy. Never met a therapist or psychiatrist who was the least bit helpful or made the slightest bit of sense.
[–]Supersonic_staples8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I was allowed to talk, so long as it was only to defend all the reasons being put forward about how shitty a person I was and I never brought up my wife’s current and ongoing affair that had actually caused the spit. When to three of these before “fuck it” and left
[–]Chaos19904 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You have more patience than I would have.
[–]FritzLn3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
the codependence is strong in most men. the world has told us since birth we must tapdance and serve and have a woman in our life
[–]P_Edme1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When I was with my ex girlfriend (mind you we never married) her filipino family forced us to go to church and seek counseling from a priest. Their reasoning was because every time they’d see me at family gatherings they’d think I was cheating on her. Obviously they couldn’t force us to go, but my ex girlfriend went along with it which meant I had to. The priest finally suggested we break up because we had no intention of making it into marriage and my ex girlfriend bought into that. The whole time she’d just complain about things I didn’t do for her and when it was my turn she wouldn’t even let me finish my sentences. Crazy woman. She ended up marrying a jew, so all that “catholic counseling” was just bs.
[–]Gordon-G37 points38 points39 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
good lord I will never go to marriage counseling ever again... living with one egotistical feminist was bad enough
[–]Dinomiteblast24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Funny thing is, they look like brother and sister ...
[–]DontTreadOnMe96-3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
r/SweetHomeAlabama
[–]0signal011 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤡😅
[–]PurveyorofToxicWaste7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Marriage “counseling” is a joke.
[–]Just-a-Human273 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this is literally the same shit my mother does to my father
[–]Supersonic_staples3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That was the end state of my marriage in a nutshell
[–]Sock_Eating_Golden1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My wife and I haven't been to MC since our counselor, a woman, didn't intervene when I lost my shit at my wife.
Short story I caught my wife in an online affair. Wife tried to blame me for pushing her to it. I wasn't having it at all.
Wife hasn't asked to go back since. Actually told me she was going alone to sever ties and get a referral somewhere else.
Now wife is seeing her alone for counseling.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We see the problem loud and clear here don’t we.
[–]airmaildolphin0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've never been married, but I had a girlfriend who demanded that I never grow a beard and I had better NEVER lose my hair. She got married a few years ago and I feel sorry for the bastard.
[–]jihocech0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Talking about marriage coucelors... There is a great Norwegian Tv serie "Dag", about an eccentric MC .
[–]Introthink0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂😂
[–]Veilpop0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The irony of the wife speaking on her husband's behalf, not allowing him to answer the question that was addressed to him.
[–]RibJet-3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Kinda shit meme
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