A hero

SekaiNoHeipo · 2019-05-09T17:14:59+00:00

That sub is cucked as fuck, damn. Good on OP for taking a stand

Marque01 · 2019-05-09T17:39:45+00:00

I read the whole thing. He's NTA, she is for lying to her husband and being supposedly 'shy'. She's a whore, that's it. Her husband is 100% right for stopping the wedding.

Omnibrad · 2019-05-09T18:12:18+00:00

YTA People grow up and they change. Why are you bringing up her college days? Almost every single person did something stupid in college. Why bring that up to ruin her life now? If she’s STI free, why does it matter how many people she’s slept with? As for the sexually shy comment, it happens. People can get shy during sex even after multiple partners. Grow up.

This is one of the most upvoted posts. Every sentence is dripping with blue pill clichés. I like how it completely ignores the fact this woman lied to her fiancé and the entire relationship was built on a lie.

I also like how it shows a woman who fucked the football team, the basketball team, the baseball team, the hockey team, the soccer team, the track and field team, the rugby team, and the ultimate frisbee team will magically get shy during sex when she encounters a guy from the chess team. Lmao.

ahugebundleofsticks · 2019-05-09T17:35:06+00:00

he just saved this guys life so of course he's the asshole, men are worthless...

"you slut shamed her...." Nah nigga she slut shamed herself as if she was proud of being the town prosciutto she would have told him the truth or somewhere near the truth instead of saying you are only #3.

I love it when people play dumb and then Pikachu face it up...

TheKnightRunner · 2019-05-09T18:00:31+00:00

For all the people on the sub saying "it's her past, it doesn't matter", why did she go out of her way to lie about it? Because she knew if he knew, he'd have a problem with it. This is a classic case of omission is betrayal.

Do people make mistakes? Yes. Do some people learn from them and become better? Yes. Does he have the right to not want a woman who was at one point a slut? Yes. It's not my or anyone else's place to judge what's important to this guy in a partner.

Also, from what I've seen, women who went through the slutty college phase tend to want to relive that at some point and are more likely to cheat in marriage.

Eclecto1 · 2019-05-09T18:23:38+00:00

“YTA” lmao. The bitch lied and told the guy he was her 3rd. This is why I just add 20 to whatever body count they throw at me.

vindykay · 2019-05-09T18:15:28+00:00

Apparantly my sister has been presenting herself as a sexually-shy kind of girl

Why do they do this I imagine that one of the good things about dating/marring a sexual veteran woman would be at the very least really good sex.

deepspace7 · 2019-05-09T19:10:21+00:00

A lot of those people are retarded and shouldn't give advice. They "think" with their emotions and when logic and reason are presented, they have no comeback or they dismiss it. It's also heavily gender biased to the female side. Most of them condone or look aside when women are dishonest, manipulative, or commits violence. It's a pos sub.

Hellse · 2019-05-09T21:08:51+00:00

TIL it's OK to lie to someone's face, plow on ahead with a marriage, and everyone is just supposed to smile and nod and let the guy go to the slaughter.

Oh right, that's women's whole game. Can't have the slaves finding out about anything actually true.

Thermotastic · 2019-05-09T19:45:54+00:00

Shes playing the shy sexual partner, but shes not. Shes probably had it every which way from Sunday. Shes a liar.

He's NTA. Shes a bitch.

MGTOWNeko · 2019-05-09T21:20:36+00:00

I love how all these people spout "iTs In ThEir PaSt PeOpLe MaKe MiStaKeS" but the second they would encounter a felon, regardless of what they were actually charged with or when, they would avoid them like the plague.

Porkincarnate · 2019-05-09T17:15:16+00:00

While OP may have saved the guy, I have no doubt that her intent was malicious. She does not want her sister to be happy. Even if her sister does not have a high body count, she will find some other way to ruin her life.

Women are vicious like that, I have seen it firsthand. My mom's twin sister constantly sabotages her relationship with our relatives because she is jealous that me and my sister are more successful in life than her sons. Stay woke brothers.

hrm0894 · 2019-05-09T20:33:37+00:00

The only reason why women get away with this shit is because most men have no clue how many partners these nasty whores sleep with. If men woke up, they'd know real quick that equality is a lie.

takeiteasy3430 · 2019-05-09T20:17:04+00:00

Assume they ALL have a body count that rivals Rambo. . . My high school girlfriend was a ho bag when I met her. I “dated” her because. . . I wanted to bang a nasty slut. It was good experience, but I digress.

She had an N count of probably 20 when I greaduated high school. She graduated two years later.

Then she went to college and got a clean slate. She no doubt banged half the city she was in. She would come back home to visit. . . Still very much riding the CC.

Then she goes to ANOTHER city for a teaching masters. Clean slate, yet again. . . Body count rises.

Now, she moved “back home” and is playing “prude school teacher”. . . Shocker!

Its too easy for them to move around and get so much random “untraceable” dick that you will NEVER know a girls true N count.

I have friends back home that I catch up with on Holidays. One, in particular, keeps up on every motherfucker from high school. . . Oh, yeah. He fucked her too, lol.

KawiNinjaZX · 2019-05-09T23:25:30+00:00

Men in real life don't want to marry a women who has slept around with a hundred men. Maybe the guys on reddit who worship every woman they see don't care but I don't know anyone who wants to marry a woman like that.

ShiroeTatsune · 2019-05-09T17:02:20+00:00

The comments have a few sound people but everyone else is more blue pilled

crispinosk8 · 2019-05-09T19:40:34+00:00

Lol guys she said he was the third, but in fact is the over 100+? Wth, I'm so happy to be celibate.

chris9407 · 2019-05-09T19:42:04+00:00

I praised him and lambasted a few in the YTA crowd. I can't believe some people are totally ok with it. I get it's probably not the most fun conversation to have but this is someone you're going to spend the rest of your life with. Wouldn't you want to know?

Buchwild · 2019-05-09T21:16:31+00:00

That's fucking disgusting, she had sex with over 100 guys? The fuck is wrong with some people. No self control whatsoever!

febreezing_hobos · 2019-05-09T21:36:30+00:00

Fuck that. The fiance deserved to know. Some people ARE NOT OKAY with that kind of stuff. If he isn't and she is, it indicated drastically different views towards sex and WILL end in disaster. Good on that guy for telling him.

Suited_Vulture · 2019-05-09T22:23:01+00:00

There are few things I respect more than a man standing alone for what is right. Huge respect.

Fantoche_Dreemurr · 2019-05-09T23:27:46+00:00

"It's in the past so it doesn't matter. Now let me lie to my fiancé about it"

Yggdrasill4 · 2019-05-09T23:43:58+00:00

I love that one comment

Sexual positivity is outwardly express until the time it becomes inconvenient and placed in the past kept hidden

ZeroBlink · 2019-05-09T16:57:32+00:00

Sounds like (the op) she has hots for this guy.

escalover · 2019-05-09T18:46:15+00:00

He’s TA, but Josh and his entire family are deeply grateful that her lies and misrepresentations were exposed?

Cucks gonna cuck.

cycloneous · 2019-05-09T19:36:37+00:00

I did stupid things in college, BUT, sleep around or stoop myself that low that I would regret it, I did not! Why? Because it is part of understanding actions that have consequences!

Clearly, this lady has no clue, and if her potential mate was told at the beginning her sexual nature, he would have balked at first glimpse. The potential groom needs to cut his losses because she is a divorce rape waiting to happen. He needs buy the brother a beer, thank him for his service and run as far away from this lady as possible!

justletmemakeanacc · 2019-05-09T22:23:49+00:00

All those subs getting more and more cucked. The amount of virtue signalling is insane.

H82Breakit2u · 2019-05-09T22:54:39+00:00

OP is a woman, and everyone jumping to conclusions thinking it's a guy.

novhaku · 2019-05-09T21:43:49+00:00

Perfect example of what women and cucks stand for: LIES. If they think it's perfectly fine to lie about their own past then what else do they feel comfortable lying regularly about? Maybe it's responsible to be skeptical of "rape" claims. <Cucks: (Reacts in horror) We believe all women!>

DWShimoda · 2019-05-09T22:03:04+00:00

Indeed... the whole line "it doesn't matter"...

Well, if it REALLY doesn't/shouldn't/won't matter, then there is no reason for her fiance NOT to know about it.

Rolling back the odometer on a "used" car and selling it as if it is "new" is both blatant FRAUD, and a crime; don't see how LYING about partner-count is any different.

Also, wimminz are all about "her body her choice"... well same applies to men/marriage and THEIR wallets, paychecks, lifetime earnings, choice of who they do/don't want to be their "wife" and/or potential future "mother of their children" and etc.

johntheother · 2019-05-09T22:52:38+00:00

You prevented a marriage from being executed under fraudulent terms. You are not the A-hole. Anybody who supports the deception of Josh is a scumbag.

six-twosix · 2019-05-09T17:33:12+00:00

Not all heroes wear capes

1Badshot · 2019-05-09T20:02:20+00:00

"Dude, you know my sister is a cum-guzzling whore, right? No, she told you her body count is 3 and she made you wait three months to even touch her slit? Nah, dog, she's playing. You could hit that for the price of a Happy Meal."

TheTimelessUsername · 2019-05-09T21:18:12+00:00

Everyone in the comments must not be moral or something? If that was a deal breaker for him, he isn't wrong for doing it. Imagine if they did continue, they would've continued the relationship on a very big lie. The fact that she acts kind of shy towards sex suggests that there is definitely something fucked up going on. SHE even knows that it was a deal breaker for him, why else would she have lied?

The best possible outcome is always telling the truth. Because with the truth, he can make better decisions.

Lastly, he is amazing for sticking to your principles and not caring about you are the asshole. It's better to be a principled man than a delusional one.

s0ulfire · 2019-05-09T22:09:38+00:00

Respect for the lady to help out a dude.

An average woman would have stuck by her fellow sister and watch the man get cucked for the rest of his life.

FutureSquall · 2019-05-09T23:11:51+00:00

Her whole family is about to pull a 180 and disown her ass. Josh has, as the OP stated, established himself. So much for digging into his wealth.

ThaiEscapePlan · 2019-05-09T23:27:10+00:00

this story reminds me a bit about the doctor and the sweet shy woman who pursued him. They were engaged and someone anonymously sent him videos. Turned out she had been a porn actress.

It wasnt just the lies and omissions but the fact that he was not getting porn star sex from the ex porn star. Beta bux status confirmed.

Bet Josh is feeling the same thing. She's fucked 100 guys but I'm getting the Little House on the Prairie treatment?

MichaelSkarn_FBI · 2019-05-09T20:55:27+00:00

The same people calling out OP would also call out someone for NOT telling a woman her fiancé was lying about his income.

sootlord · 2019-05-09T22:47:40+00:00

I love how OP stated that his sister was portraying herself as "sexually shy and was her 3rd partner" Glad that he to her fiance what was up 👍

Stargazer34 · 2019-05-09T23:08:17+00:00

God damn, what a fucking hero. Men standing for truth like this is so valuable. Could have saved that mans life.

CptGoodnight · 2019-05-10T00:31:07+00:00

It was shocking how much everyone said "YTA."

If I were the fiance, I'd DEFINITELY want to know.

Over a hundred different men, and she acted sexually shy, and told him he was her 3rd?!

Good god. OP may have saved this man bigtime.

rigoexe · 2019-05-10T00:49:27+00:00

Bravo. We need more people like that. People willing to speak the truth even if it makes them unpopular.

Edit: her motives are questionable since I have doubts about any sort of ‘impulse’ towards integrity existing in modern women. Happy ending nonetheless.

mnight75 · 2019-05-10T01:40:21+00:00

NTA

I don't have an issue with her being what is clearly a cock carousel whore. The issue I take here is the lie.

If she will lie to protect her SMV, what else will she lie about? Number of partners is such a trivial thing compared to the rest of the things that happen in a couples life.

Will she lie about other more important things, and then when he finds out and does something about it divorce rape him?

I am biased, and would tell him not to bother getting married in the first place because women are road blocks to success as often as they are enhancements to success, and who knows which one any particular girl will be. Yet the casual lie like this, tells me she is of the former group, not the later.

them1lfman · 2019-05-10T02:34:08+00:00

Post like these are what pushed me to take the red pill. It’s not the post itself but the hordes of indignant comments twisting arguments every which way to hamster away the females disgusting behavior.

The double standards are appalling and sickening to me.

2019-05-10T05:44:41+00:00

shocked the thread isn't locked yet. lol.

RegiusGeralt · 2019-05-10T06:42:50+00:00

So many captain save a hoe assholes on the sub my eyes turned red reading the comments.

StrawhatMucci · 2019-05-10T07:15:54+00:00

u/Marshmellowburned Alot of us here think you did the right thing man. No worries. You are not the asshole edit that out. I am not even mgtow btw.

2019-05-10T08:39:02+00:00

Such a ridiculous sub in the first place. Do what you want, why the fuck would you ask redditors to give their opinion on your actions? If you don’t behave like a liberal doormat particularly if you’re a man they think you’re a nazi. I’ve brought up stoicism and the pursuit of virtue and they think the idea is absurd, because clearly their mental philosophy is healthy when so many people on these subs admit they have depression/anxiety/whatever debilitating mental condition. They act like moral gatekeepers except when any of their ideas are criticized, then traditional morals should be thrown out because it hurts their feelings.

Asking Reddit anything is like going to the weird kids in high school and using them as your moral compass. Most of them are kids or at best college students and so brainwashed into the idea of liberal humanism anything else seems absurd. Hard pass, I can make my own judgments

infinitepowerhtx · 2019-05-09T23:29:34+00:00

Imagine if the roles where switched and it was a man who was lying to a women.

BrianHeidiksPuppy · 2019-05-10T01:27:18+00:00

Women love to force good honest men to lie so they can create false equivalencies between the degrees of liars when looking at themselves and their "partner".

Oh I slept with 100 guys and didnt tell you because that would effect how you felt because its fundamental to what you believe about relationships opposies well ya know it shouldn't matter (deconstructing the lied to mans moral values nonchalant) and everyone lies like when you tell me I looked good in that dress ( a lie she forced you to tell by her own unreasonable reaction to an honest answer to a dishonest question).

That has 0 to do with sleeping with 100 guys which is an entirely different level of conversation. That is fundamentally about the fact she lied to him about something she knew was a lie and knew was this important the entire time thats why she lied to begin with. Its not an unfair expectation sprung on her at the last second that never presented a natural opportunity to come up prior. That would be a lie of omission. This is lie lie in the sense she crafted a false narrative about herself to deceive him intentionally. The question that man must answer is if he can even marry someone who could do THAT before he addresses his opinions on the fact she slept with 100 guys which there was no indication that is not the smaller issue here. Unsurprisingly principled men are often more upset about the principle of creating that false narrative to deceive him than the actual thing being covered up. There is a dual sided conversation to be had about the benefits of promiscuity and certainty especially when meeting for the first time later in life. There is no conversation to even be had when you break the fundamental principles of trust itself.

observant_one · 2019-05-10T02:22:17+00:00

Look at all the assholes calling OP the asshole. That sub is honestly cancer. People there can't comprehend basic shit.

r1chten · 2019-05-10T04:17:44+00:00

He gave the dude the hoefax and he is in the wrong? Smdh

pandakrunch · 2019-05-10T05:06:43+00:00

So sad seeing OP getting called an asshole. Hope he keeps on exposing his sister's bullshit

shadowstep12 · 2019-05-10T05:32:18+00:00

Man gave a bro the pill. Don't care what anyone else thinks give him a reward. Coming out her vaccinating bros like that

imperadorGP · 2019-05-10T10:45:12+00:00

The guy call out a succubus, and is TA? No, sir. You are a hero. Saved a brother.

zenman123 · 2019-05-10T12:19:44+00:00

Bros should help out bros. Good on OP

FalsePositiveRethink · 2019-05-11T07:08:33+00:00

You did the right thing.

If she really thought her past didn't matter, she would have told him about it herself.

AlmostIrresponsible · 2019-05-10T01:31:26+00:00

Cucks are saying he is the asshole. Clown world.

cbr900rr1996 · 2019-05-09T20:52:25+00:00

heheheh

VinexHD · 2019-05-09T23:56:21+00:00

So she lied about her past and OP is the as*hole for telling him the truth ? Holy fuck, that sub is filled with pathetic keyboard warriors and true niceguys.

2019-05-10T00:12:26+00:00

Haha the honest one is considered an asshole! 🤡🌍

tecnihelp · 2019-05-10T01:22:12+00:00

i don't understand what the people on this comment section are saying but you did the best, your sister doesn't deserve him because she is a whore and a liar

goodeival · 2019-05-10T08:34:54+00:00

Everytime I browse the comments of that sub I just get angry.

botanga131 · 2019-05-10T09:30:56+00:00

At 100 whats another 1? Someone like that can change but I would like to know the statistics of the likelihood that a woman who has 100 partners suddenly stops and has sex with one dude for the rest of her life. I'd also factor in the lower probability of a successful marriage at that point.

I'm not saying that having 100 sexual partners is bad, power to you. but you are making a series of irrevokable decisions that basically do not make you marriage-worthy material in the traditional sense at that point. Eligible bachelors are not looking for that kid of chick to marry. She knew that which is why she lied. Not only that, he had a right to know. It would be akin to a mis-selling scandal. He did the right thing and he might have lost a sister but i can guarantee he can make a friend for life.

RainVX · 2019-05-10T09:32:01+00:00

"meddling when you don't need to is the essence of being a hero"

operationdragoon · 2019-05-09T17:50:45+00:00

I have two sisters myself and I wouldn´t tell it. It is not my business. I know some here will not like it.

A hero

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IOW, she's been quite the slutty whore.

Title	A hero
Author	Pink-Heart
Upvotes	303
Comments	166
Date	May 9, 2019 4:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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