Apparently I'm rude.

monkeemagik · 2019-07-16T11:57:59+00:00

Equality and all that.

misanthr0pe666 · 2019-07-16T12:13:17+00:00

I stopped holding the door for them right after the 120th or so occurence of them walking right past me without acknowledging my existence, let alone the fact that I held the door open for them.

Lord_Teapot · 2019-07-16T11:59:11+00:00

in 40 years she'll accuse you of rape

Bonesteel50 · 2019-07-16T13:26:26+00:00

I hold the door when appropriate. IE: they are right behind me. Beyond that... its your job

CoinSwapTrader · 2019-07-16T13:21:46+00:00

just be glad you're not the moron stuck dealing with these entitled princesses day in and day out everyday!

theone21582 · 2019-07-16T14:37:36+00:00

Yeah I’m not the fucking doorman or a wall mart greeter. If we’re passing at the same time then sure, whatever, but I’m not standing there like a simp for M’lady to exit. Foh.

fredanderssen · 2019-07-16T15:53:20+00:00

I can’t count how many times I’ve held the door for women and not been thanked. I hold the door for guys, too, and they always thank me.

When women don’t show gratitude, I say “I’m not your doorman.” Now I simply don’t hold the door for women anymore.

Jackoffalltrades89 · 2019-07-16T13:34:59+00:00

The threshold for anyone not under 6 or over 65 is arm span plus one stride. Basically if they can take one good step and reach out to catch the end of the door, you hold it. Otherwise, like you said, I got places to be and shit to do.

MrMagtow · 2019-07-16T14:38:09+00:00

What? Slave not holding door!? How RUDE!

iwilzkilz585 · 2019-07-16T12:10:27+00:00

I have very similar experiences

Majesty_of_Nothing · 2019-07-16T18:36:47+00:00

Yesterday, on 2 separate occurances, women held the door open for me. I could not believe what had just happened.

That blew my mind. And then I realized I've been working out like a dog and I'm less ugly now I guess ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

frikabg · 2019-07-16T12:55:16+00:00

Pfffff!!! I don't give a fuck what strangers think about but when it comes to women... I can't help but not only don't give a single but all the fucks I have to give! I can't stand other people tell me what I am and what I am not and when they do the reply is the same... If you don't like me don't look my way BITCH I am not forcing you to AM I?!

Fucking whores and simps everywhere you can't even drink a beer in peace anymore without 10 people judging you for it 'spits on the ground'

[deleted] · 2019-07-16T13:56:16+00:00

And the thing is, men created this wonderful invention of a hydraulic door stopper specifically so we wouldn't have to hold doors open for eachother. Bitches still think we need to stand there like a fool holding a door that gently closes itself.

GuyChamomille · 2019-07-16T16:51:58+00:00

I usually hold the door for the elderly but for some brats it's not worth it. They usually acknowledge the asshole that doesn't do it. Female nature.

IDDQD4Life · 2019-07-16T16:00:16+00:00

My local gas stations have buzzers on the door. You push the button, the clerk looks at the security monitor and decides whether or not to let you in. So I ain't holding the door for anybody. Almost every week there's an article in the local news about a woman committing armed robbery at a gas station, so I'm not taking the responsibility of being the one who let her in. That's on the clerk.

MenGoingTOWin · 2019-07-16T17:12:03+00:00

I hold the door for anyone I notice is close behind.

If woman and they give me that look like "don't even look at me, talk to me, or think you have a chance with me" I let go right before they cross the threshold. Since they're not using their own arms, they get hit by the door.

"Whoops."

This is probably a violation of my core set of ethics in a way, but I feel I am imparting knowledge about respect unto them. Probably not, but one can hope.

Tyler789228 · 2019-07-16T17:31:34+00:00

#HoldingDoorsIsMisogynist

stonehead16 · 2019-07-16T17:47:52+00:00

This little things always bring a smile to my face.

fat_lesbians_lul · 2019-07-16T17:50:10+00:00

i dont mind holding the door for someone if they are close or sprint 5steps so i dont have to wait 10seconds and then are polite and say thanks,

its basic fucking decency to say thanks after someone does something for you, but ye i kinda stopped holding doors for women because if thyy cant say thanks they dont appreciate it, guys however always smile and say something

almost as if women are majority bitches.... hmmm

kriskros18 · 2019-07-16T18:17:57+00:00

Amen bro. My only exception are grandmas, they are old school, they can cook/nurture and will continue to get my love.

IAmMadeOfNope · 2019-07-16T19:10:23+00:00

I forget the study, but it's been proven that when women aren't given clearly preferential treatment, it's perceived as hateful.

JamesFannin · 2019-07-16T19:26:40+00:00

NEVER hold the door open for anyone at the USPS. They’ll get in the long line before you,

waterfat · 2019-07-16T19:34:04+00:00

I saw a hilarious post that spread around saying something like, "I run ahead of women and hold the door closed to they have to fight patriarchy to get in"

annehoper420 · 2019-07-16T20:46:28+00:00

What, you didn't throw your jacket over a puddle for a dainty "maiden" to step on? I do hope there was a fainting couch nearby! :D

Satans_Evil_Dream · 2019-07-16T19:33:24+00:00

Just imagine what it would be like, being the type of person who would get annoyed that a stranger didn't go out of their way to hold a door for you, so much that you actually make a comment to the stranger about them being rude.

If somebody somebody actually said something to me in that circumstance, I don't think I could stop myself from saying something back.

shatterthecrystal63 · 2019-07-16T15:27:06+00:00

I got places to be, homie. Women have arms, too.

Fuckin' A, I'm busy. Get the door yourself, princess. You're strong, you can do it.

Now get fucked and get out of my face.

Genericasianmale · 2019-07-16T20:35:30+00:00

I used to hold the door for people.. I didn't care if were a guy,hot chick or homely looking broad. I was just trying to be nice to my fellow human beings out there. I remember years ago in high school,held the door for some latin chick. She looked at me with disgust and didn't say thank you. Now in my mid 20s once on a blue moon I will hold the door open for chick just to see their reaction. recently at the movies I held the door open for a random girl and she didn't say thank you,so I said "you'e welcome"She ended up telling her bf on me lol. fuck her and her boyfriend.

FitHerLimbsInFridge · 2019-07-16T21:03:52+00:00

this and /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen are my favorite subs, that being said, I hold the door for everyone, regardless of gender, or reward.

realChebz · 2019-07-16T21:24:13+00:00

I hold the door if someone is right behind me or they are exiting as I enter. But I hold it only long enough for them to grab on to it (if they don't, it will smack them on their highness's nose), I don't stand there with a door open and wait for them to walk past. Unless it's a disabled/old person, or someone carrying something heavy.

I think there's a fine line between not being a bell boy and being an asshole.

Malbek604 · 2019-07-16T21:35:54+00:00

I made the mistake of holding a door open at an office tower, people just kept streaming in like I was a doorman. I muttered 'fuck this' and let it hit the next guy in the nose.

cybercookie69 · 2019-07-16T21:56:19+00:00

This kind of things makes me sad, that men no longer can open doors for women because they are so rude and bitchy. At least a thank you would have suited.

SuspectedLumber · 2019-07-16T22:58:51+00:00

> under the gorgeous lightning show that hurricane Barry was providing.

^ I like this. Not enough people like rain.

And yeah, they're very entitled. A secretary where I work was rude and dismissive to me countless times just because I'm not classically handsome, and one day she said "why are you so rude??" after I didn't bother holding the door for her. Buzz off, honey. Had you treated me with at least a semblance of decency, maybe I'd hold the door for you.

swansong19 · 2019-07-16T23:47:52+00:00

If you're doing nice things for other people expecting something in return you're doing it for the wrong reasons. Kindness/charity are their own rewards. Who gives a fuck if some rude douche doesn't say thank you? You went your own way and did something nice. Take pride in that and let others do their thing.

If you found a set of keys outside a convenience store would you not leave them with the clerk because the owner isn't there to say thank you? Of course you would because you're a good man and you're not doing it for reward you're doing it because it's the right thing to do.

The whole point of MGTOW is that we don't give a shit what other people do or think...we do us...they do them.

TheGreatSeneca · 2019-07-16T23:58:02+00:00

You from Louisiana? Those women think they demand the courtesy and respect of a Victorian Queen

[deleted] · 2019-07-17T03:24:44+00:00

Although I enjoy making feminists cry when they don't shut their mouths, I bet that storm was a blast to watch and feel. Kudos.

wotsalldisden654 · 2019-07-17T04:18:54+00:00

That's how all women are, especially in louisiana/nississippi/alabama area. That's coming from experience

mckenzie_friend_au · 2019-07-17T04:27:52+00:00

Ummm... You're not allowed to. Chivalry and courtesy are benevolent sexism. You should just remind them of that.

Tryna be a supportive male feminist. Wouldn't ever do anything that stiffles you strong and independent, stunning and brave broads.

ShekelwitzShoahstein · 2019-07-17T11:40:42+00:00

Hurricane Barry? I thought he finished both his terms?

Mr_Meme_Machine · 2019-07-17T16:05:33+00:00

I hold the door open for anybody, but that’s just because I treat any stranger with a basic level of decency, not saying that’s how you should go about it but it’s just my way of living.

livingyeet · 2019-07-16T15:33:49+00:00

Tbh I like holding the door for people, including women.

WoodString · 2019-07-16T20:22:08+00:00

Got places to be? Where, drinking beside your car? lol

Title	Apparently I'm rude.
Author	YoungKingFCB
Upvotes	326
Comments	62
Date	July 16, 2019 11:53 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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