Being chad doesn't help.

boy_named_su · 2018-11-19T18:02:56+00:00

No money, no honey.

SilverGryphon · 2018-11-19T18:21:41+00:00

I heard a similar story from a good looking guy. He too was fed up of being a warm dildo and just wanted to have a family, but all the women he met just rode him and ghosted him for the next Chad.

easeanddelight · 2018-11-19T19:37:44+00:00

My cousin is 26 and he has slept with 40+ women. He's a good looking 7,5/10. Not a model but he has social status from competing in kickboxing. I would consider him a Chad compared to most guys in my country. His lay count is much higher that usual.

He's only had like 2/3 relationships that lasted over 6 months.

One girl only told him she was pregnant the day his son was born. She called my cousin to sign the papers. LOL... He pays child support.

Another girlfriend he had seemed very nice (I met her in person) but she left him for beta-bux guy who gave her more things and more attention.

My cousin basically has no problem getting casual sex and flings that last weeks/months but he knows the reality of women. And it's fucking depressing. One of his comments that rings true to me is: "Every women is a bitch until proven otherwise".

So yeah.. being a Chad is not perfect.

Justacaveman444 · 2018-11-19T18:05:02+00:00

Very average dude here. I've had so many dating experiences that made me feel just as disrespected.

Once a woman I was fucking took off randomly to get pregnant by a rando, and 2 months into the pregnancy return to pursue our relationship, parasite in womb.

Luckily, I always had a part of me that was redpilled. She crashed a friend's dinner party and kept saying what she could and couldn't eat, etc., trying to raise the topic.

I ended it with, "We get it, you're pregnant" and changed the subject. She dipped. I did not chase.

You can't control what others do, only how you react.

underrated_kawasaki · 2018-11-19T19:47:53+00:00

Anyone can be chad with the right bank account but only if they have the alpha male traits to back it up. If you got money but you’re still a beta simp that catches feelings too easily, you’ll simply be beta bux and only get pity sex every now and then from a gold digger after you’ve shelled out tons of money on her and she’s fucked tons of chads on the side. Even though I’m slightly shorter than average, I could be chad as I have an $80,000 car, a brand new motorcycle, a good face (others words not mine), I’m fairly muscular, and I’m well endowed but it ain’t worth the fucking time and BULLSHIT. I simply go to hookers instead as they’re HONEST about being whores that want your money and they’re actually cleaner than your average thot because they always make you use protection and they frequently get tested. You can’t say the same about your typical thot on birth control that lets every Tom, Dick, and Harry nut inside of her... Remember the only difference between a hooker and a “regular woman” is that the hooker is HONEST, hell they’re probably the only honest women on this planet. Even chads will get cucked eventually when bitches wanna try something different like a bigger chad so remember these hoes ain’t never yours, it’s just your turn.

0signal0 · 2018-11-19T19:28:08+00:00

all I wanted in life was a woman to love and good kids to raise well, I wanted a simple and honest life but I guess that is too much to ask.

that feel brah

Because-I-Chose-To · 2018-11-19T19:20:32+00:00

Fun fact is that you can cuck "good men's", and you would be cucked if you would have money instead of look.

And just stop lying to yourself. If hot and rich guys like Cavill and Pitt or Deep have problems with females, it is just impossible nowadays to "just" have a good wife and kids.

Learn something useful to make more money in the future, to better your situations and just don't expect that the world will magically change and girls will change. Maybe it's sad, but at least it's the truth.

gimme_wood · 2018-11-19T20:58:25+00:00

Multiple women have told me they used a few attractive men specifically for sex so I believe it. That said, I'd much rather be used for sex than as a wallet.

amywinehousewascool · 2018-11-19T22:26:31+00:00

Yes this is correct.

If you are good looking, you get more attention from women but the women themselves do not change at all. They are still shallow, vapid, manipulative, whiny, annoying, and dumb.

Still, it feels good to walk down the street and have lots of young women smile at you...as you stare right past them and don't even bat an eyelash in their direction.

I once had a woman have the audacity to stop me in the street and ask me if I had the time. I looked at my watch and said "Yes" and just kept walking. No time for you thot.

DailyChupa · 2018-11-19T19:50:39+00:00

You should see the change in attitude from when women view my Tinder to when they meet me in real life.

On Tinder I’m very low value, hardly get matches and when I do I’m near the bottom of their list to meet up.

Once I meet them and they see the confidence and cash they get super aggressive want to hook up ASAP want to be my gf. It happens really fast. They get desperate and I can see how that’s a turn off when the shoe is on the other foot.

Looks will get you laid but status and money will get you children, family and commitment.

Not that either of them matter but that’s the way it is.

TheLastMgtow · 2018-11-20T01:10:23+00:00

This is what ive been saying. Chads are going mgtow because they cant find a single woman worth commiting to. Sure you might be able to bang many thots on tinder, but then you realize that you are in a thotpocalypse.

I use to be what incels call a border Chad, had phases where i got laid a lot and phases where i didn't. I was a sex toy to them. They would drive to my city to fuck. Yet it seems i was too poor to introduce to their parents or whatever. And they were always in the search for a beta bucks.

Its easy bro. Just pump and dump, and have periods of monk mode. Love yourself not women, and invest in real friendships. Men will value anything you do for them, and will remember, because they didnt have anything handed over to them in their lives.

Dank_Meems · 2018-11-19T21:38:49+00:00

I'm 6'3 and work in IT with a bunch of "standard looking IT nerds". They always talk shit to me saying I should have no problem getting girls because I'm good looking and tall. I just tell them they will just find something else to not like about you.

matrix2002 · 2018-11-19T20:58:53+00:00

Yeah, at one point when I was younger, I was a local sports star.

I am not shitting you, one week before my break-out game, I was sort of dating normally for a guy. Some dates and some interest from cute girls. I wanted more attention, but who doesn't right?

Then, I had a big game and, no joke, the homecoming queen asked me out that week.

I had multiple date offers from multiple girls who all were "above" my pay grade just a week before.

I had a lot of fun, but I was done with it after about 6 months. The most bizarre part of it was when I rejected a couple of girls, they did not react well. People dump on "nice guys" all the time who can't take rejection, but girls do the same shit.

I decided I would rather have a real girlfriend and settled down for a little while.

Chasing women can be super fun, but it's basically the same as chasing anything else material.

Money, food, women, alcohol, drugs, ect... All of these things are pretty much the same when consumed too much.

JBWTheory · 2018-11-19T18:59:26+00:00

It's over if you are sub 8

renegatta · 2018-11-19T20:08:31+00:00

I am making a similar experience. Looks only go so far.

I give them nothing now. I feel great.

bannerlord · 2018-11-19T22:10:33+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/7824k2/being_a_boytoy_is_dehumanizing_a_field_report/

I was in your position a year ago, way happier now that im really committed to mgtow

stinkstar_gazer · 2018-11-20T01:41:14+00:00

Bro...MGTOW don't give a fuck what you are and who pound. WE OUTTA THE GAME MUTHAFUCKER. SO CHAD AWAY BRO. I hope you destroy as much pussy and wreck as many relationships as you can. Teach those bitch ass simps and cucks out there a hard lesson on what it's like to be in the game.

TheMuslimMGTOW · 2018-11-19T20:12:48+00:00

This is something the incels cannot understand.

NeedHelpInHTX · 2018-11-19T21:25:14+00:00

bitch and ho is no longer dehumanizing for them. they actually embrace it. they are proud if it because no matter what they do men will always give them a pass this is why they will be perpetual children. we men do not get the same treatment so we have to grow up fast because the world kicks our asses for the mistakes we make but women always get coddled. ive been trying to tell these idiot men that looks dont matter no matter if u are considered a good looking man or an unattractive one women will still fuck you over just other men may have to work less to get their shitty stretched out "prize" than other men who have to put in so much fucking work and still may not be able to reach their vast wasteland. Resources is what matters in the end to them. All of us decent men wanted a nice wife and kids a great family because thats how we keep society going and keep us with morals being passed by gen by gen but now society is decaying because the family unit is destroyed but sadly we cant blame anyone but ourselves because simps are in charge doing anything to please women just for a whiff of nasty used snatch

hrm0894 · 2018-11-19T23:32:58+00:00

There will always be a better Chad, and she will always be looking for him. ALWAYS. Even if you're the #1 Chad on earth, another Chad will reign supreme. GYOW.

NarutoDnDSoundNinja · 2018-11-19T23:22:50+00:00

"Boy-toy"

ovrload · 2018-11-20T01:32:00+00:00

yeah because they want a provider when they hit the wall and you dont have enough resources to cover for them.

phreshstart · 2018-11-20T05:18:08+00:00

You get all the sex and crave for what rich men have. But rich men/beta bux actually have it way worse than you... they get married, have a few kids, the wife cheats on them with bad boys/ex boyfriends/chads and then divorce them because they are strong and independent. And the rich guys end up with nothing, no kids, no wife, no money.

Women will just find the best men to exploit and do her best to seduce him.

dakd2 · 2018-11-19T20:30:56+00:00

for 'women and this society' there would be never an 'enough'

GlobalAsshat · 2018-11-19T20:38:21+00:00

Thanks for the post. It helps to have the perspective of a better looking man. Would you call yourself emotionally stimulating? Are you cocky and playful, edgy? Dominant? Well Traveled?

Dominant men are given top priority by women... confident, social proofed, interesting men who can feed her all sorts of verbal bullshit to stimulate and titillate her senses.... they love stories..

2018-11-19T22:56:08+00:00

Absolutely!

I am older, and I used to be a romantic beta, and I was in a very bad marriage when I discovered PUA (yes I know) which taught some techniques which worked well enough for me to have a few affairs, and some of those affairs were with women married to alpha/chads.

Now I know that they were not really attracted to me, but they were just seeking some peace in the arms of a beta PUA from the craziness of dealing with an alpha/chad; but at the end they went back to the alpha/chad or to have an affair with another alpha/chad.

These days I am not alpha/chad but I am no longer beta, and I have had a few hookups with women married to betas who are looking to get their kinks with some alpha-like dude.

It's crazy, I know. I would not have believed it if I hadn't experienced it.

realChebz · 2018-11-20T01:53:47+00:00

It helps if you just wanna get laid no strings attached. And when she dumps you for beta bux, she will come back later for your DNA so that her beta can raise it.

swapnilsathe1 · 2018-11-20T02:47:48+00:00

You can either be alpha fux or beta bux. Cant have your cake and eat it too.

Hmm what should we call you. You're not an incel. Mmm..... we gotta coin a new term for guys who get laid but cannot find a good woman to marry.

Do you maybe feel like your pairbonding is fucked up? I'm curious.

DaBiff184220 · 2018-11-20T05:39:24+00:00

Same here, bro. I’m average height but ripped with a butt chin and do acting and modeling. I’m the guy girls in relationships gravitate towards when they are wanting to cheat. But anytime I want companionship or anything more then that the pussy dries faster then the Sahara desert. Luckily my last relationship was so awful I literally blow women off when they smile or try to flirt with me now.

siege342 · 2018-11-20T14:29:30+00:00

"Come home to the taste of shatering the grand illusion Come home to the taste of Simple Rick"

PingPauli · 2018-11-20T08:52:57+00:00

You can have it all, doesnt matter. Rich, good looking, healthy, social 10/10, stephen hawking brain, etc. Women will still fuck you up and piss on your grave after.

TheRabbitTunnel · 2018-11-20T05:10:59+00:00

Youre right about men being seen as commodities, but theres a lot more to being Chad than just looks. Women go crazy over Chad.

wathon2 · 2018-11-20T06:53:02+00:00

Alpha fuck, beta buck.

They fuck the good looking men, and marry the rich men.

Obviously if they could marry a good looking rich beta, they would. But there aren't many good looking rich beta to go around.

the lesson, don't be a beta buck.

mp111 · 2018-11-20T12:28:40+00:00

I have 2 good looking cousins (identical twins) that have polar opposite success with women. One lives an IDGAF lifestyle and projects himself as being a man... the other is needy, emotional, and childish.

Your attitude and your ability to lay down the pipe play a lot more into whether you'll have something that lasts

solitidute__ · 2018-11-20T14:32:38+00:00

Just pump and dump lol

avtarius · 2018-11-20T03:02:23+00:00

Regardless of what you are, if you ain’t investing in yourself first, you’ve succumbed to society’s conditioning and will suffer.

Fact remains you don’t need to be married to reproduce, which is our only biological imperative.

Another fact is we need to breed between varied gene pools to ensure better genetic distribution and evolution. So spread your seeds, without killing your life of course.

Title	Being chad doesn't help.
Author	codename_coltrane
Upvotes	175
Comments	102
Date	November 19, 2018 5:55 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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